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mother's understanding
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I have a boyfriend and we have been living together for one year.He is very kind and gentle to me. But one unperfected point that he has just a degree with higher education,he knows it so he is studying hard now and aims at higher degree achievement one day.
But my mother is very unsatisfactory with not only his current education degree but our living together before marriage.I have been always communicating with her with much patience every time i call her..but she is very apt to be mad or just hang up my phone when we talk about my bf and i.
I understand her bcz she is a very conventional woman, never allow sex before marriage(actually she hasn't known that we have already sex though she knows we live together in one house)
Nevertheless, how i can get her understanding luckily?I have done more patient communication :crying: :crying: :crying:
But my mother is very unsatisfactory with not only his current education degree but our living together before marriage.I have been always communicating with her with much patience every time i call her..but she is very apt to be mad or just hang up my phone when we talk about my bf and i.
I understand her bcz she is a very conventional woman, never allow sex before marriage(actually she hasn't known that we have already sex though she knows we live together in one house)
Nevertheless, how i can get her understanding luckily?I have done more patient communication :crying: :crying: :crying:
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Nice put. Your mother isn't in control of your life - you can live it your way. If she is threatening you in some way which restrains your alternatives - call an authority.
Good luck.
Should i give up my bf to comfort my mother or constantly communicate and wait until she feel better ??
I think you and your boyfriend should both speak to your mum on an adult level, tell her your older enough to make your own mistakes and believe it or not people do make mistakes in the big wide world, it's called life and learning from it. Your a big girl and your mum cannot keep you wrapped up in cotton wall for the rest of your life in fear of you getting hurt some way.
Don't give up your boyfriend, speak to your mum and make her understand.
thanks, pls correct my english if any errors
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