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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I have got a really big problem right now, and I wanted to know if any of you know how I feel, and have any advice for me.

Well, me and my g/f have been going out for almost 8 months. Latly we have been talking about sex alot, and we both want to, but we can never get together to do anything! The other day I was at my friends house and his g/f came over, and she brought one of her friends. To say the least, I really liked right away. We didnt do anything, but later on that day I found out she wanted to do something with me. I want to do something with her, but I dont want to ruin my relationship with my g/f. I like 2 girls at once, and it aint making me feel good! I know this other girl is someone who if I were to go out with she would probably cheat on me, but I almost like cant resist her. I just dont know what to do, I want to do something with my g/f, but I cant... but I can with this girl. Please help someone, im all depressed again... and thats bad cause I've been suicidal <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; And knowing my luck, my g/fs going to read this and dump me... I just hope she doesnt go to this site...
- Brandon -

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go wiv the one u want, not cuz u can get action, but because thats who u envisage bein happiest wiv
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, I think your right. My current g/f would be best to stay with, I love her to much to screw things up with us.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you're mad to even contemplate going with this other girl. She's obviously a slag, and you only want her for sex! How would u feel if ur girlf said that she wanted to have sex with some other bloke??? Exactly.

    Choc xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know just what you mean about saying that if you went out with this other girl she's likely to cheat on you cos there's this bloke who I've met up with a couple of times and done stuff but I know he cheats cos he's back with his g/f and yesterday he wanted me to round for sex, and I also met another girl off his list so now I see things completely differently.

    But I think you should stick with your g/f cos I'm sure you'll get round to doing stuff 2getha, just gotta wait for the right moment. Good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    methinks u shouod stay wit ur girlfriend. cos u obviously love her and eventually it will happen. promise. the other girl is just a slag. a momentary glitch in what i hope is ur undivided attention for ur girlfriend. testosterone drive u. dont give in! ull regret it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey everyone, thanks for your help. You were all pretty much right. I am going to stay with my g/f, I was just knocked off my feet for a few days, but im all better now! Thanks once again!
    - Brandon -
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You kinda knew what you wanted to do you just needed some other people to give you a small in sight. It's harder still if you have feelings for this some one else!

    Good luck and dont worry bob (wink wink)
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