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Why do i still love him?
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me and this guy got together summer 2004 and broke up in autumn 2004 because we NEVER saw each other - neither of us had enough time and we lived too far away from each other, but i never got over him and told him so in july 2005, he sed he liked me too and we started seeing each other and started going out august 2005
But then all of a sudden he sed he was going out with sum1 else!! i was heartbroken, but then he sed he dumped me and it was a mistake all the usual bullshit, so we got back together, but yet again we didnt see each other enough, so i called it off but we still "overly-friendly" if u know what i mean, and hes now announced he is going out with sum1 else and again i am left heatbroken, i am hoping it will be like last time, a mistake, but my mate knows this girl and says they are really close
I know i shouldn't love him after all this hes put me through but i do, i look out for him wherever i go just so i can see him - even if i dont tlk to him......help me........
But then all of a sudden he sed he was going out with sum1 else!! i was heartbroken, but then he sed he dumped me and it was a mistake all the usual bullshit, so we got back together, but yet again we didnt see each other enough, so i called it off but we still "overly-friendly" if u know what i mean, and hes now announced he is going out with sum1 else and again i am left heatbroken, i am hoping it will be like last time, a mistake, but my mate knows this girl and says they are really close
I know i shouldn't love him after all this hes put me through but i do, i look out for him wherever i go just so i can see him - even if i dont tlk to him......help me........ 0
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In time you'll realise that.
b) he clearly is just using you and wants you to be there when he gets bored with his current girlfriend, as he can't stand to be on his own,
c) he is playing with your feelings, this is not fair,
d) you need to stop thinking that you love him, it just seems you want someone to love you, so learn to love yourself and
e) you're better off without him.
You seem quite young still, so there is plently of time to find yourself someone who will treat you will respect, hey it took me until I was to do this, I had lots of male friends at school and college, but the ones as school use to say they liked me as more the a friend and the next day they would be kissing someone else, just as well I viewed them all as immature little farts.