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Will she pull me?
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Im goin to a party on saturday and i need to know whether i have a chance with this gilr, we flirt quite alot and i reckon i have a chance. how can i get in some extra bonus points before then, QUICK HURRY!
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Do you know her quite well as a person/friend? Or is she just a lust object?
If you know her well, for god's sake TELL HER how you feel. A simple, "I really like your company, I'd like to spend more time with you" and a smile will probably suffice. If you're flirting like mad together, she probably feels the same way as you and is just waiting on you making the move. Whatever you do; MAKE THE MOVE! Don't expect her to do so, she won't!
(Leanr from my mistakes! Nothing hurts more than watching someone you love walk off with another guy simply because you didn't have the guts/confidence to tell her how you feel!) If she doens't feel that way, don't worry about losing a friend, that's a myth, it rarely happens. (If you do, then the friendship wasn't worth keeping and she loses as much as you, so don't get down on yourself)
If She's just a lust object, get her tipsy (NOT DRUNK) and compliment her lots. Tell her she looks sexy/gorgeous. Make sure there is physical contact (arm round her shoulder/waist, trace your fingers along her forearms, stroke the back of her neck, etc...) If she's up for it, she'll respond. If she's not, accept it and move on! ("no" means "NO", not "if you keep at it, I'll give in"!)
Finally, quick tip for the Party on Saturday? Learn to Dance!!! Salsa is probably best, but just learn to move like you're enjoying yourself and make physical contact with her while dancing with her! (Hold her waist, spin her round, grind groins if that's appropriate! You know the score!) 3 tips. Get the beat/rhythm, until your able to tap your toes to it then get your hips moving in time with the rhythm! Dance from your hips! Don't care what anyone else is doing, just enjoy yourself! (Ignore your pathetic mates who can't dance to save themselves, dancing will make YOU a LOVE GOD!!!!)
Hope that helps!
Snowman
Ooh, sorry. There I go again, deviating from the task at hand (no pun.)
Play it VERY <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"> all nite, no-one likes a drooling puppy dog. (Not that I'm saying you are or anything!)
Just go over and ask her 4 a dance. At best, she'll say yes and start gesticulating madly in your direction. At worst, she'll say NO! loudly. If this happens, pretend to pass out and she might just give the kiss of life.
Or you could jus walk over and stick your tongue down her best friend's throat and see if she gets jealous <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
I'm such a bitch...teehee
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
" HEY THERE CHICK GIVE ME THE NECK " AND IF SHE REFUSES JUST CALL THE GUV'NOR " G n T "ON THE ROCKS!hahahah.
No but seriously just be yur self like they say and just be one of the lads!dont drink to heavely but believe me girls love older lads and they love lads who are popular and dark etc just try to stick to them basic things you could say and you should be on yur way and if all else fails just go home and have steak and chips if pat aint eaten them !patttttttttttttttttttttt soz i act like this frankie boy cracks me up