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This might sound a little silly, but.... in a pub or whatever, how do you start talking to a girl who you don't know without sounding like a wannabe player?
Prime example, sitting in the pub this evening having a quiet drink with a mate. Caught the eye of a pretty girl sitting across the room with her friend. Would love to have gone and spoken with her, but I have no idea how to start so left the pub eventually without saying anything. :banghead:
I'm not looking for a random drunken pull or shag, I'd actually quite like to meet someone for a relationship. How to strike up a conversation without it seeming like a sleazy chat up line? I'd just like to meet someone genuine, ask them out for a drink or something but don't really know how to start. All my previous gfs have been friends first. So what's a good way to introduce yourself and seem like a genuine person rather than someone just looking to score?
(Also, how to get yourself out of the situation if, having taking the risk, the pretty girl turns out to have the eloquence of a pig?)
p.s. On the one in a million chance that you were the pretty girl in the John Baird this evening, get in touch.
Prime example, sitting in the pub this evening having a quiet drink with a mate. Caught the eye of a pretty girl sitting across the room with her friend. Would love to have gone and spoken with her, but I have no idea how to start so left the pub eventually without saying anything. :banghead:
I'm not looking for a random drunken pull or shag, I'd actually quite like to meet someone for a relationship. How to strike up a conversation without it seeming like a sleazy chat up line? I'd just like to meet someone genuine, ask them out for a drink or something but don't really know how to start. All my previous gfs have been friends first. So what's a good way to introduce yourself and seem like a genuine person rather than someone just looking to score?
(Also, how to get yourself out of the situation if, having taking the risk, the pretty girl turns out to have the eloquence of a pig?)
p.s. On the one in a million chance that you were the pretty girl in the John Baird this evening, get in touch.
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Just go over to her and tell her your name and start chatting. If she's interested she'll start chatting back. If not, she'll just tell you where to go and you then make the 'walk of shame' back to where you came from
Do they have to look back at you for a long time though? I mean I have caught the eyes of girls in bars and clubs before but they also then focus ont heir friends or something. Its not liek you get those 'come hither' looks al the time.