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Cheated on after only a few weeks!
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Feeling a bit crap! Ive been cheated on for the first time and only after a few weeks. Didnt even hear from the person in question, through someone else. It was him who said he wanted more than sex in the first place as well, not me! Quite a mad situation. Just feel kinda wierd really now. Its just kinda added to all the shit i already have on my plate! Feel overloaded!
My friends are all being great, saying all the right stuff and cheering me up etc. The whole thing just seems incredibly pointless now. Ive been single for 6 months, been playing around a bit and now i want something decent again! Just doesnt seem possible though. All i seem to meet is immature twats at uni! Guess ill have to branch out from uni. Argh! Kinda fucked off!
My friends are all being great, saying all the right stuff and cheering me up etc. The whole thing just seems incredibly pointless now. Ive been single for 6 months, been playing around a bit and now i want something decent again! Just doesnt seem possible though. All i seem to meet is immature twats at uni! Guess ill have to branch out from uni. Argh! Kinda fucked off!
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I don't really know what to say, the only solace I can offer is that at least this happened (and you found out) early on. That way you don't have to waste any more of your time/energy/affection on the waste of space.
Hope you feel better, keep your chin up
Just about sums up what I'd've said if I'd beaten her to it.
Sounds like you've got your head screwed on, because I think this is where most people fall at the first hurdle. Don't give him an inch to wheedle his way back in...spend time with your friends, and any and all genuine people you know.
Good riddance, indeed.
I'm a decent guy looking for decent girl dfor something more then just one night of fun and I can't find anyone either so you ain't alone.
Coolio, least im not the only one. He continues to email and text me saying hes not a bastard and not looking for an excuse etc...ive told him he needs to grow up! He still seems to think ill spend Xmas with him. No way in hell! He needs to suffer. Some people really need to learn the meaning of the word respect. Hes still referring to me as his girlfriend, in his dreams! Two years ago i went out in search of a girlfriend, i ended up going out with a guy from the gay scene. That finished a while ago. I thought id give guys just one more shot at uni and now im back on the hunt for a girl. And they wonder why i go both ways?! How dumb are they? More chance of finding someone decent!
Yeah he just wants you for his own sake I think. He needs to learn a lesson and I wouldn't get back with him. But its your choice.
Uni people, well some are good, most are out for as much sex and booze as they can get. Though you see loads of couples in uni, quite annoying when your single.
hang in there. I hope I find someone soon. Its another Xmas on my own, not nice
I know most just want booze and sex at uni, but im way past that stage in my life. Experienced all of that years ago! Guess maybe thats unusual as im only 20. Sure i like to muck around once in a while, but i find it dull all the time!
Yer im pretty good. Im totally over whats happened. Just a bit pissed off. Good luck in finding someone!
I haven't had the wild years of sex and boozing and that does get me sometimes. I would still ultimately like a great girl and a beautiful relationship over the paries and fun any day. Though I am not adversed to fun
hopefuly soon.
Still asking me about Xmas! Said there is no way after all this shit! That im not getting involved with someone who doesnt have their head screwed on! That he seems incredibly messed up and confused and needs to sort himself out big time. Hes fucking lucky im even talking to him!
It happens. He's been a bit of a mong, but that's his problem not yours.