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I could really do with some help on this one
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OK, around 2 weeks ago, I was set-up with a girl who was a friend of a friend, we hooked up and she seemed perfect, great.
I get into work the next day and find out that the day before she dumped a lad I work with for me, so quite obviously me and the lad wern't exactly 'friends'. But we decided it was best if westayed out of eachother's way and that was that.
She had a party yesterday, and we needed some decent weed. So she rang the before-mentioned-ex to ask. He sends her one back saying lots of nasty things about me cause he thought the weed was soley for me (not the other 20 ppl there).
Then she tried to defend me, insulting him in as many ways, he then sent her a text stating he was going to 'rip me apart'. Nice.
So i rang him back, and Mr. Jack Daniels started talking and i got a little carried away. I then find out all of the above was listened to, at my works, by my boss.
So he says he's going to be waiting for me outside college on friday and im betting lots of money he wont be alone.
Is she worth it?
I get into work the next day and find out that the day before she dumped a lad I work with for me, so quite obviously me and the lad wern't exactly 'friends'. But we decided it was best if westayed out of eachother's way and that was that.
She had a party yesterday, and we needed some decent weed. So she rang the before-mentioned-ex to ask. He sends her one back saying lots of nasty things about me cause he thought the weed was soley for me (not the other 20 ppl there).
Then she tried to defend me, insulting him in as many ways, he then sent her a text stating he was going to 'rip me apart'. Nice.
So i rang him back, and Mr. Jack Daniels started talking and i got a little carried away. I then find out all of the above was listened to, at my works, by my boss.
So he says he's going to be waiting for me outside college on friday and im betting lots of money he wont be alone.
Is she worth it?
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Only you know if she's worth any hassle. But I'll say one thing, I can tell why he's an ex.
Still, in the unlikely event he tries to give you a going over (I doubt he will) at least you can get the book thrown at him by the law:)
The best form of self defence: a lawyer.
Yeah, retards like this don't tend to go through with their stupid threats. He's gonna wait for you outside college?
If she like his type then there's no hope for you. May as well end it now.
Oi lol im a northener !!
Hes probably full of it and wont do anything, Just leave collage with a group of friends, ignore anything he does or says and contact a solicitor if he do try anything.
He won't do anything in public. But if he does, call the police, not a solicitor! Have your mates with you when you leave, and tell one of them to have a mobile handy just in case. But I'd be very very surprised if he does anything, he just sounds like a thug who's all talk.
As for 'is she worth it', how on earth should we know?
As for the whole ex-boyfriend thing, i took most of your advices and left with a few mates, only to find him not there. So i thought maybe he was just all talk no action, just another big mouth.
Then i find out off someone at work that he was arrested down the road from my college (must have been on his way!). Got arrested cause CID found out he bought two and a half grands worth of weed! I really do believe in karma now!