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Biiiig sexuality issues
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Hiya everybody,
please bear with me, ive just found this site and its great!
so if i do anything bad then tell me! 
i have a wee problem, its a nice problem, but a problem i guess!!!
ok,my friend, lets call her abby
well me and abby have been close for about 2 or 3 years, since i started uni, and do everything most 20something girls do...
anyway, to cut a very long story short, we were at our house while the others were on a night out watching tv about 3 weeks ago, and had a few glasses of wine and anyway, we got onto the topic of sex as usual!
she suprised me cos she said she would like to try it with another girl, suprised me cos i never knew she'd be like that, ive always though i might be bi, but didnt think much of it, anyway we left it that night, but a fortnight ago we came home drunk, and to cut another long story short, she kissed me and well, i kissed her back and we ended up sleeping together that night
it was amazing and i have absolutely no regrets, its happened 3 times more now and has been more and more intense, and i think im falling for her
sex with her is so much more than ive had with any guys and like i said its amazing when we're together and we cant keep our hands off each other
i dont want to stop, weve talked about it and we want to carry on, and whenever the other 2 girls are out of the house we're upstairs in my bed in minutes...
i just dont know what to do, do we tell the other 2 girls we live with, or keep quiet, do i tell people at uni or what?
its kinda fun having this secret but i get the feeling it could come back to haunt me
have any other girls had a similar experience? what did your friends say when you told them you'd had sex with a girl, did they never speak to you again or what?!
helllllp!!
love jen
x
please bear with me, ive just found this site and its great!
so if i do anything bad then tell me! i have a wee problem, its a nice problem, but a problem i guess!!!
ok,my friend, lets call her abby
well me and abby have been close for about 2 or 3 years, since i started uni, and do everything most 20something girls do...
anyway, to cut a very long story short, we were at our house while the others were on a night out watching tv about 3 weeks ago, and had a few glasses of wine and anyway, we got onto the topic of sex as usual!
she suprised me cos she said she would like to try it with another girl, suprised me cos i never knew she'd be like that, ive always though i might be bi, but didnt think much of it, anyway we left it that night, but a fortnight ago we came home drunk, and to cut another long story short, she kissed me and well, i kissed her back and we ended up sleeping together that night
it was amazing and i have absolutely no regrets, its happened 3 times more now and has been more and more intense, and i think im falling for her
sex with her is so much more than ive had with any guys and like i said its amazing when we're together and we cant keep our hands off each other
i dont want to stop, weve talked about it and we want to carry on, and whenever the other 2 girls are out of the house we're upstairs in my bed in minutes...
i just dont know what to do, do we tell the other 2 girls we live with, or keep quiet, do i tell people at uni or what?
its kinda fun having this secret but i get the feeling it could come back to haunt me
have any other girls had a similar experience? what did your friends say when you told them you'd had sex with a girl, did they never speak to you again or what?!
helllllp!!
love jen
x
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i think my flatmates'll be fine, i jus dont think they'd appreciate it if they came home to find me and her half naked on the sofa!!!
but im not sure whether to say anything in case they'll be uncomfortable
i think ill leave it for a bit and we can continue in secret, its exciting like that!! getting me thinking now!!
anyway peeps thankyouuuuu! xxxxxx
Like MoonRat suggested, have you considered joining the LGBT group at your uni? You would find a lot of people there would be more than happy to give out free advice.
You should do things you are happy with.