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Is it right?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Is it right/ what do you think about a teacher going out with an ex pupil?

My best friend is just 20 and is seeing her old secondary school teacher who is now 32. What do you make of this. Although they have been together for a while, i'm still not sure whether to throw my arms up in congratulation. Although nothing happened when she was a pupil. The age issue is also an issue as she is at uni and wants to be a high flying business woman and he wants to settle down and have children....

What do you guys make of this?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teachers shouldn't be shagging their pupils, but once they've left what's the objection? She's an adult.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If it isnt now a Teacher/Student relationship. And they are both adults who is anyone really to say that its wrong. We all fall for various people and that can be anyone of any age, size, form.

    I say good luck to them. If they have differences in what they want for life I would be suprised if they did last forever but only they know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no problem really.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think there is anything wrong in it. They are both adults and if there is no teacher/pupil relationship anymore then there's no harm! :flirt:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mmm seen 18/19/20 and a 32 year old 4 times now, one myself. Never saw it work too well lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont see much wrong with it
    i saw in a paper abit ago though, some girl in scotland started seeing her music teacher whos in his 30's when she was 15 i think
    shes now 16 and expecting his baby
    he'd also been under investigation before for the same thing.... :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    i dont see much wrong with it
    i saw in a paper abit ago though, some girl in scotland started seeing her music teacher whos in his 30's when she was 15 i think
    shes now 16 and expecting his baby
    he'd also been under investigation before for the same thing.... :rolleyes:

    That's quite obviously wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There was a girl in my school who got together with a teacher once she had left sixth form. Did seem a bit strange, especially since they both left to move to another country together not long after school finished, but she was an adult after all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Chart Freak wrote:
    That's quite obviously wrong.
    she's dead pretty aswell....he reminds me of elton john
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cornishangel24 wrote:
    Is it right/ what do you think about a teacher going out with an ex pupil?

    My best friend is just 20 and is seeing her old secondary school teacher who is now 32. What do you make of this. Although they have been together for a while, i'm still not sure whether to throw my arms up in congratulation or feel angry. Although nothing happened when she was a pupil. The age issue is also an issue as she is at uni and wants to be a high flying business woman and he wants to settle down and have children....

    What do you guys make of this?

    Who cares?

    I'm 20, been old enough to travel my own path for years. Likewise with her.
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