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Wot Helps U Orgasm?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi!
I love my boyfriend with all my heart and we have really good sex, but i've never orgasmed. Im not saying its coz of him bcoz he's a brilliant lover but its always over quickly or we're going at it hard and get 2 shattered 2 go on much longer. I found this 1 position that is really good, but its kinda complicated and tires my boyfriend out coz he's got 2 do all the hard work.
So, any tips on wot helps u 2 orgasm?

Thanx
Cheeky*

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    join the club cheety monkey, neither have i. it felt nice but it didnt exactly send me wild.
    i was told to relax, make sure u aint worried about contraception etc, as subconciously u could b and that might b the prob. i cant realy answer as im as stuck as u r, but just to let u know u arnt the only 1, im definately glad to know that,
    c ya
    good luck
    love helly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yo Cheek

    Try either the reverse bishop or roast chicken position. Never fails.

    How can bf be a brilliant lover if he doesn't like doing all the work? In my humble opinion, that's what he's there for.

    Blade's first rule about lovemaking is "take pleasure from giving pleasure" A skilled lover can hold back until he's ready. So relax, get into that favourite position of yours, tell your bf to hang fire and work your magic.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I never had an orgasm until I was 23 (when I met who is now my hubby)!

    Anyway, he opened up new horizons for me by knowing how to offer me clitoral stimulation at the same time as penetration.

    In fact, the majority of women cannot orgasm by penetration alone.

    Get you bf to try it. Believe me, if he knows how to 'push that button' at the same time as having sex you will know what I mean.

    Also, it means he will have to concentrate a little more which might make him last longer.

    I have changed from someone that thought they would never had an orgasm to someone that can have multiples!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I guess thre's no surefire way having the big O, really. I was dead surprised when I read somewhere that just 25% of us come with penetration. It's weird, but for me it's only ever happened when we were doing it somewhere we shouldn't! Like, one time we were in this terrible traffic jam nad there were all these people around us in cars [who could probably see us] but we just went for it! And it worked....... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; Maybe it was just the excitement or something, I hardly ever even come close when it's just the boring bed!

    *|* Chica *|*


    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx chica, i may now have pinpointed my prob with the big 'O',my 1st time was a bit nerve racking 4 2 reasons, 1, it was my 1st time and the 2nd, was it was on a car bonnet down a road at 10pm ish, so people were occasionally driving past.
    but i think the none adventerious sex of my ex was pertly the prob of no O, it was in either mine of his bed, so not v.daring or particually romatic/randy settings. tha only time it was kinda good was when we went to stay at my aunties and we did it there in the bed, as they were next door we had to keep quiet, nerviousness(not scary nerviousness, just excitement of being caught) of being caught just made me wanna fall in2 fits of hysterics, 2 which i had to refrain myself.
    thanx chica, i think part a the probs solved,
    c ya
    love helly
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