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Should I tell my bf?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Just looking for opinions on this:

I've been dating this guy for about 1 year now, and we
are really close. However, I've met this other girl who I think likes me as more than a friend. She keeps hinting at the fact that she wants to spend time alone with me, but I have never given in. At this point in my life, I'm thinking maybe I'd like to try it. The question is, should I tell my bf or just try it and keep it a secret. I'm not sure he'd understand.

Thanks,
Angie

http://www.webloguniverse.com/weblogs/Angie83

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say in the first instance say nothing and try it, if you don't like, walk away and no one is any the wiser! Never live a regret! x Best of luck, let me know how you get on!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You mean you're not sure you boyfriend would understand you cheating on him?!?! Jesus what an inconsiderate little wanker he must be!!!

    Out of interest if he met a girl who he thought liked him as more than a friend and kept hinting she wanted to be alone with him ... would you understand if he shagged her and didn't tell you about it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You need to work out why you're tempted by having sex with this girl, and what it means for your relationship.

    You're young, feel free to go and explore your sexuality, just don't cheat on your bloke with this girl.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jon_UK wrote:
    You mean you're not sure you boyfriend would understand you cheating on him?!?! Jesus what an inconsiderate little wanker he must be!!!

    What an ass that guy must be!!


    Whether you do somebody of a different sex, or the same, its still cheating.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I forgot to mention

    He has mentioned several times about how 'his' fantasy is to be with me and another girl. However, that's really the farthest thing from my mind. You people are probably right, but I still don't know.

    Thanks
    angie83 wrote:
    Just looking for opinions on this:

    I've been dating this guy for about 1 year now, and we
    are really close. However, I've met this other girl who I think likes me as more than a friend. She keeps hinting at the fact that she wants to spend time alone with me, but I have never given in. At this point in my life, I'm thinking maybe I'd like to try it. The question is, should I tell my bf or just try it and keep it a secret. I'm not sure he'd understand.

    Thanks,
    Angie

    http://www.webloguniverse.com/weblogs/Angie83
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Posted Pictures

    I posted a few pictures on my webpage, and I made a decision I think.

    Thank you all!

    http://www.webloguniverse.com/weblogs/Angie83
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So you are dumping him and going for her?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do pictures have to do with cheating on your boyfriend?
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