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Hey i need a a lil help probably nothing but its eating at me and i am probably just being insecure.
I have been going out with my girlfriend for a while and we started having sex , the thing is i have the image of loud great big shouting orgasms and since i am pretty inexperianced in this department does it mean somethings missing?
She says she is fine and enjoys it but i dont know any help would really be nice thanks.
I have been going out with my girlfriend for a while and we started having sex , the thing is i have the image of loud great big shouting orgasms and since i am pretty inexperianced in this department does it mean somethings missing?
She says she is fine and enjoys it but i dont know any help would really be nice thanks.
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if your g.f says she enjoys it, then trust that she does. But, just to reassure yourself, try a few different things during foreplay+sex. Ask her what she likes+maybe one day you'll find something that'll make her scream with extasy!!
No, sex isn't all about screaming. You don't need to scream to come. Some people are screamers, but some people are very quiet and just breathe quickly when they come.
If she isn't shouting but says she is coming, then there is no problem. She's obviously just quiet.