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Really confused.
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, but I've met this guy and I can't stop thinking about him. He is so lovely and we get on brilliantly together, have lots in common and can't stop talking! people around us have commented that we are getting on well and are being "flirty" with one another. Problem is although I am in a long term relationship, I have started to feel something for this guy, so much so that I think I am falling for him. I miss him when he isn't around and feel like something is missing when he isn't there. I don;t know what to do. This guy has started to say things which suggest he likes me as well, in fact everybody is saying that he does. I think I love my boyfriend, but this has taken me by complete surprise and I just can't get this other guy outta my head.... Any advice?
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, but I've met this guy and I can't stop thinking about him. He is so lovely and we get on brilliantly together, have lots in common and can't stop talking! people around us have commented that we are getting on well and are being "flirty" with one another. Problem is although I am in a long term relationship, I have started to feel something for this guy, so much so that I think I am falling for him. I miss him when he isn't around and feel like something is missing when he isn't there. I don;t know what to do. This guy has started to say things which suggest he likes me as well, in fact everybody is saying that he does. I think I love my boyfriend, but this has taken me by complete surprise and I just can't get this other guy outta my head.... Any advice?
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Don't be a bitch.
If you get with this other guy, can you see yourself being with in 6 years?
Can you see yourself staying with your boyfriend for another 6 years?
It's normal to see people you like the look of, even when in a relationship.
But if you are "falling in love" with someone else then that, IMHO, indicates that you have problems with your boyfriend. You need to work out what's wrong in your current relationship, and work out if the problems are fixable.
Don't cheat on your bf, and don't make any rash decisions.
There must be something goin wrong in ur relationship with your fella for you to be drawn to someone else.
I admit its perfectly normal and natural to think some one is good looking and be flattered by their compliments, BUT if you are starting to think about being with this otha fella whilst ur still with your boyfriend then u need to take a good hard look at ur relationship!!
May be there is something this otha fella is givin u that ur boyfriend is not(attention, compliments etc etc) but don't cheat think long n hard about u n ur boyfriend n if u see a future then work hard at it together if it doesn't work out then at least u can walk away having tried ur hardest!!! But if you dont see a future with ur boyfriend then the relationship has run its course n its time to get out n try new things.......!! :wave:
More newbies should make sensible comments like this.
Just one little thing, suga. Can you try not to use text speak? It's quite hard to read for us old fogeys, and it means people are less likely to take your comments seriously. You don't have restricted space on these forums, so try and type in full words. It just makes life easier.