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"normal" orgasm (girls)
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I havent really had a bloke spend ages trying to make me cum even tho they say they are bothered about me not orgasming.
Anyway, other nite my bloke did. HE spent ages when i did finally cum it was crazy. My whole body shook like really shook. My muscles all tensed, i felt like a had cramp in my legs! I was so hot and got goose bumps. Now can see where the 2nd things came from but is it normal to shake that much?
After he was laughing at me, i kinda just assumed it was cos it was so intense, but hjave been thinking about it and so just wondered about other girls experiences.
apologies for spelling/typing, got a new keyboard n am struggling to get used to the feel of the keys!! lol
Anyway, other nite my bloke did. HE spent ages when i did finally cum it was crazy. My whole body shook like really shook. My muscles all tensed, i felt like a had cramp in my legs! I was so hot and got goose bumps. Now can see where the 2nd things came from but is it normal to shake that much?
After he was laughing at me, i kinda just assumed it was cos it was so intense, but hjave been thinking about it and so just wondered about other girls experiences.
apologies for spelling/typing, got a new keyboard n am struggling to get used to the feel of the keys!! lol
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not that i minded cant wait for more!!
Fuzzy eyes? Wow! He must have be good
i was so dizzy nd my legs were all shakey and when i stood up i jst fell back on the bed again!
...not saying that it was a bad thing!!
am i doing somethign wrong? should i try relaxing, imagining.ect while it gets more intense.
or could it be because his parents r not to far from his room.
I hate to be a failure.
yea, relax and imagin stuff. you will eventually. it took me a while to orgasm and when you first orgasm it might not be what you expect. it mightnot be an intense or asl ong as you would expect but they get better.
just talk to your boyfriend and if it feels good tell him and he will keep doing it. just tell him if hes not doing it the way you want, im sure he will understand. Get him to try rubbing your clitoris, its a really sensitive point so you will have a better chance of an orgasm.