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condom worries!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok im thinking about having sex very soon, but as always i have a question that needs answering. It prob sounds really really stupid but when your having sex is there any possibility of the condom coming off as your man moves in and out etc? its just that ive heard horror stories about women getting them stuck up themselves!

thanks!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Very small worry really, its never happend to me, condoms have a very low failure rate, and even if it does all go tits up so to speak there is little chance of it getting stuck up there. If it does come of or split and your man has come then go and talk to the doctor about emergancy contreceptive (the morning after pill) really dont be embarrased, these people deal with this stuff all the time, and dont bat an eyelid, they also dont go running to your 'rents to tell them that you have been sleeping with a man.

    Hope it all goes fine, and remember, ALWAYS use a condom, not only are they good for contraceptive purposes but stop the spread of STI's (sexually transmitted infections)

    Hope that helps.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, the thing to be careful of is if it slips off aftre hes cum, when the penis shrinks they can slip off. But whilst ur going for it they dont, as the rubber clings to the man.

    Just get him to be careful when he withdraws, and if it does split go see teh doctor straight away.

    Dont worry, itll be good. Just enjoy it, the condom will work perfectly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey kid, for what it's worth, just make sure you don't let him take it off in the middle of everything! He might ask, I ALWAYS do! LOL!

    Anyway, just in case, be prepared for a pitch to lose it. Chances are it'll come at a point where You're not exactly Your most clear-headed.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiyas <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Just wanted to say not to worryabout condoms slipping offcos its unlikely to happen unless ur man is very small (which im sure he isnt). They are designed to stretch and as long as its rolled the the base of his penis ull be fine. When he withdraws just get himto hold it then its not gonna come off in u!Alli would say is before u have sex be careful about pre-cum cos u can get pregant from that ok so make sure ugot a condom on in time

    sorrry if ive gone on too much...lol

    Happy shagging <g>
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Even if the condom did slip off (which is unusual), its highly unlikely that it'll get lost/stuck inside u....and when he's come.... make him withdraw BEFORE he goes limp. When the penis is limp, there's way more chance of the condom slipping off.
    Also, it's best to be on the pill or some kind of female contraceptive too just to be double-safe, that way if the condom does split or slip off, u got less chance of pregnancy but remember ALWAYS use a condom if u want protection against STIs and STDs. Female contraceptives only protect against pregnancy.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I once had this problem but it is easily solved. The condom didn't get lost inside i just pulled it out. I think that it happened coz we were going a bit hard at it. I once had the condom split but i took the morning after pill even though i was on the pill just to be sure.
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