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Dominating Or Submissive?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
When it comes to sex are you usually the dominating one, or the submissive one?

My boyfriend is very dominating when it comes to sex and i usually end up gagged, blindfolded and tied to the bed while he whips and bites me. i do get turned on by it, only to certain extent, but i am willing to do it because it's what he likes and the sex is great. :D
so,
If you are the dominant one, what do you like doing to your partner?
If you are the submissive one, do enjoy having it done to you or would you rather they didn't?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm the dominant one, all the time!

    Which is a shame, I do enjoy it, but it would be nice to be told what to do and thrown about a bit myself once in a while.

    My partner is very submissive so either I dominate or nothing happens.

    She loves me blindfolding her, being a bit rough, holding her arms down, moving her about, lightly pulling her hair etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and the bloke take turns. But I can get him going more if I egg him on.

    The usual - degrading talk, spanking, biting, pinning down, teasing, hair pulling. Lovely.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Am a switch...

    I'd love to be dominated by a tall strong woman tho :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my partner take turns. I like to do/be both so its cool.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tbh i don't want to be dominated, i'd feel degraded
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Id probably go down the submissive route.
    I just dont seem to be able to pull off being domineering for some reason....
    Though, it is good fun when the sex turns into a tussle over who is in charge....its like a new one between dom and sub.....dub? som? :S lol Who knows.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love being submissive. Giving it to me rough. The man is so passive though, he tries but hes just a gentle ;) He wont admit to it, but he likes being dominated so for him I do it though I'd love being the one getting spanked held down hair pulled told every move to make. *dreams*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im usually the dominating one, like getting rough and forcing her to do things and stuff. She says it really turns her on! I think shes a bit shy with dominating me but on the rare occaction she is i love it :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends on my mood, I wouldn't say I have a preference
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my gf's neither, she's not really into kinks... although if I had it my way I'd be dominating :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The whole dominatrix thing doesn't really come into my relationship, but as for who takes control and leads sex etc we usually take turns, although probably me more often than him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Submissive all the way ;)
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