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I need to get this off my chest.PLEASE BE HONNEST! Im very flat chested and extremely paranoid about it.My fiance says he loves my breasts,but he never ever touches them unless i put his hand on them,in which case he fondles them for a few seconds! He doesnt get turned on by them,unless i wear a wonderbra with a low cut-he goes wild then,but as soon as he see's them without the bra,he seems to forget they exist.Im concidering surgery.Please tell me what men prefere in breasts, and any other advice. THANKYOU!
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Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
Funnily enough, also entitled Breasts. Damn I'm good, took me exacary 10 seconds to find the thread!
Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
Ive just typed this then i notice turtles gonna find an old thread on it...ah well...
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
why don't you ask him why u feel he doesn't like ur breasts?
Maybe he's just not a boobs person.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
So what iof he doesnt fiddle yr breats at least he fiddles YOU and breasts are a small issue-so as they say-dont make a mountain out of a molehill.
What does he fiddle instead?are you intimate.
I really dont think breasts are a big thing.
I know some men who like to fiddle with their girlfriend's ears instead,or their cheeks,their bum and its not a problem-incase yr wondering how i know,i'm not a stalker,i just have a few close boy-friends and we can talk to each other.
its better,girls are too gossipy and bitchy for my liking.
Anyway,cosmetic surgery.I'm not against this.I fpeople really would like to have it done,if it'll seriously make them more happy then do it.What i'm saying is,do it for the right reasons.
Measure the pros and cons.
Clear?
I don't seem to have the fixation on breasts that the stereotypical male has. I really like them, but they have no bearing on whether I like a certain girl or not. Sometimes, larger breasts put me off, but it's unusual. I'm not bothered by small ones at all.
I would much prefer a small breast if it's REAL. i wouldn't touch a FAKE/altered breast... ewwwww...
get the surgery if it makes you feel better, by all means... but be prepared for the fact that a lot of men wouldn't like them anymore!!
most of what i say is rubbish, so please take any of my posts with a pinch of salt
My present g/f has small breasts and my last had large ones, it doesn't make any difference to me if they ar large or small, its the person that i'm going out with not the breasts.
I think small ones turn me on more as they are firmer, as they say any more than a mouthful is a waste (sorry to be vuger), but its true.
Me personally I love to feel a ladies breasts and all that type of thing.
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I too have small breasts, and my boyfriend isn't a big breast man, i thnk that if they aren't big breast men then theres not as much emphasis on touching the breasts. Although my man does really like my breasts, he didn't spend as time as I would have liked on them, so I decided to bite the bullet, and just tell him, that I really liked him touching them, and that he turned me on when he did that.
Communication is the main thing really tell him what you like, and he'll either explain to you what he doesn't like about it, or he'll want to satisfy you, and he'll do what you want him too!!
Maybe I'm your girlfriends guardian angel, and I comeon this site, just to find out what you think of her!!
I have to say you seem to be a devoted b/f!! I'm glad some ppl can manage conventional relastionships!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I thoud I saw a puddycat, I did, I did see a puddycat!!
i have been thinking about the exact same thing.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
/me comes over all emotional
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