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continous unprotective sex!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Me & the boyfriend have been going out 4 3months weve jus started having sex but without any protection! Im not on the pill and we dont use a condom!! To b honest i dont know where to go to talk to sum1 bout getin the pill, let alone that, i think i cud b pregnant!! Even tho we know bout all the risks, it jus doesnt come in2 thought when we're actually at it!

What the hell am i to do??
Jenz

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does he actually come inside you or does he pull out??? If he comes inside you then obvioulsy there's a chance you could be pregnant!! If you want to go on the pill just go and see your doctor or nurse and they will give it to you.

    Be careful though as it's not just a baby you may get from not using any protection!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's really bad advice Genie. You can still get pregnant even if he does pull out before he ejaculates (cums). 'Withdrawal' is NOT a recognised method of contraception. Have a look round our pregnancy and sex pages.

    Jenz, yes, there is a very strong chance that you could be pregnant. You have also put yourself at risk of getting sexually transmitted infections. It's important to go and get yourself checked out.

    Respect your health, yourself and your partner from now on. Don't have unprotected sex again. Go down the chemist and buy yourself a big packet of condoms, and make your bloke do the same. It's his responsibility too.

    Learn more about contraception: http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/ http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/contraception_overview.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/rubbish_excuses_for_not_wearing_a_condom.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/so_you_think_youre_pregnant.html

    It's very important that you speak to someone on the helpline below about the risk of pregnancy and diseases. It's confidential, and they really have heard it all before. Call them today, you might need some emergency contraception as soon as possible:

    Brook Advisory Centres
    Centres offer young people advice, counselling and medical help around contraception, pregnancy, abortion and sexual health.
    Telephone: 0800 0185 023


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wasn't saying that's a good method of contraction, i know that you shouldn't reply on just 'pulling out' but all i was saying was that there's less chance she could be pregnant if that did happen!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Damn right it's not just a baby you could end up with.

    I'm gonna have to disagree with Genie, ANY unprotected sex could result in pregnancy whether he withdraws or not. Put simply, as soon as it goes in unprotected there is a chance of ending up with kids. If he withdraws that chance does come down, but it's still risky.

    There are so many different types of contreception available (see other areas of thesite for details) that it's silly not to use anything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah yeah yeah i know...stop picking on me people!!! I've never had unprotected sex and don't plan to!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Karla said it all really so nothing to add except if u r lucky and r not pregnant then u should thank your lucky stars and take this as a second chance...if u r pregnant though thats a whole different story and I really hope u aint!
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