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This girl just wont give me an answer

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Ok, well if u have been reading my previous posts then u know im confused about this girl. I was with her yesterday, with a few othter people, and the guy who sent her this cheesy valentines package. she knows how i feel, and i was alone with her in her room, apart from her little sister constantly running in, she has no lock and if she closes her door u cant open it from the inside, weird i know. i asked her if she was still confused, me gazing into her eyse, arm round her and she still werent sure, but her friend told me that she had told her that she probably would go out with me, but she wants to wait for this other guy, for it to all blow over, but i dont know who to believe, it sounds bad, but i just wanna hope.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well... it soundslike there are a few possibilities
    • she likes you and doesn't want to hurt the other guy
    • she likes the other guy and doesn't want to hurt you
    • she likes both of you and can't decide
    • she doesn't want to commit
    • she's shy

    ummmm that's about all i can think of. I think ur doin the rite thing by askin her and stickin with her etc, but how did she react to the other guys valentines gift? if she was pleased then maybe she likes him too...

    i think it's just one of those things where only time can tell and if u can withstand the test of time then u will get the girl! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.

    [This message has been edited by Drifter (edited 18-02-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds like a sit. I once had. Me and another boy competing (friendly as we were very good mates).

    In the end it turned out she liked neither of us, we just gave her presents etc to see which one she prefered. She appreciated it but wasn't interested.

    Not mates anymore of course, he moved away.

    My advise is to take a step back, give her some room and let her make her mind up. You may be putting some pressure onto her and maybe you look too eager (strangly a turn off in some) for a commitment, something she may not be ready for.

    Keep it cool and IGNORE the other guy. You dont want to give her the impression of a competition.

    Good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Her words to me were that she didnt want to go out with this other guy, i think i will give her space, thats good advice, i think she was beginning to get abit pissed off with me. Ill just wait for a couple of days and see what happens, fingers crossed x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah space is a gud thing!

    Good luck, i'll keep my fingers crossed 4u! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
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