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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
other then viagra is their any another pills or spray to keep my erection for more than a hour.pls help

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably going to stir things up a bit here, but why do you want to "keep it up" for over an hour? Surely if your partner hasn't cum within that hour, she (presumably?) is unlikely to do so after, so perhaps you need to work on your technique rather than your stamina. However if she is having multiple orgasms, it sounds a bit selfish in not allowing you to to finish!!

    Anything that will delay orgasm and keep an erection is likely to contain lignocaine, therefore as a minor local anaesthetic will also cause a lack sensitivity around your cock, therefore you are going to feel sex is like throwing a matchstick down a minehole!! you are not going to enjoy it, therefore unlikely to satisfy your partner, ie. if you cannot feel what you are doing - therefore what is the point?? Surely sex is for the benefit of both partners. Believe me, as you get older it is not a pleasant thought to think you need to shag all night long, as oppose to 10 - 15 minutes of mutually fulfilling love making.

    I don't think sex should be regarded as a competition, to see how long you can do it. If your partner has cum, and your body is saying 1 hour is enough, then listen to it, enjoy your own orgasm, then get some bloody sleep!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    derby, you overlook one possibility in your otherwise sensible post: that they both like to be at it for a long time with multiple orgasms!

    I now that is what I like to do and one of thebest things about being bisexual (as I am) or lesbian: girls have nothing to "keep up" and can thus resume again and again and again (yiou get the picture)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sarah, I acept fully your valid comment, except that any delaying sprays/pills etc, will do exactly that, therefore mbin is probably losing out, don't you think?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by derby county:
    Sarah, I acept fully your valid comment, except that any delaying sprays/pills etc, will do exactly that, therefore mbin is probably losing out, don't you think?

    I agree derby, just delaying the orgasm by numbing the penis means that mbin will be losing out. It would be better if he concentrates on making better love than just lasting longer.

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