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Being Good At Sex And Sexual 'Activities'
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Hi,
I'm a 17 year old male. I have had one sexual experience with my ex girlfriend. I fingered her. A few days later she dumped me and said I was crap at fingering. She's not the sort of girl to say things just to hurt people. I know this may sound stupid but after thinking about it for ages I think she was saying it to be 'kind/helpful' to me!
Can anyone give me any advice what to do when fingering, licking out, having sex with, or doing any other sexual 'activities' with a girl please?
Thanks for your help, I appreciate it.
I'm a 17 year old male. I have had one sexual experience with my ex girlfriend. I fingered her. A few days later she dumped me and said I was crap at fingering. She's not the sort of girl to say things just to hurt people. I know this may sound stupid but after thinking about it for ages I think she was saying it to be 'kind/helpful' to me!
Can anyone give me any advice what to do when fingering, licking out, having sex with, or doing any other sexual 'activities' with a girl please?
Thanks for your help, I appreciate it.
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I must say that your gf was not ver helpful just dumping you. Sex, in whatever form, is very personal and it is always different for different people. This means that you need to communicate with each other, explaining what you like and what not. And that goes both ways.
If you want to get better at it, just keep trying, taking it slowly and make sure you ask the girl what she likes and to tell her what you like.
This is one thing where experience is everyting - but only good ones count. Do not go hunting for numbers. I have had one or two lovers who would boast about having slept with god knows how many girls - and they were all crap in bed - totally focussed on their own satisfaction.
But the guys and gals who would be open to signals about what I liked - they were utter bliss!
love helly
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Thanks anyway
what a pure tit he is.....