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Bad sex put you off
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Imagine you met someone and casually dated them a few times, got on quite well, texted and called each other. They are not really your "boyfriend" but they are more than a friend. Then after a while, one time you meet, you have sex, but it's so disappointing, there is no chemistry, it's unromantic, over in seconds... it's the same story in the morning.
Would you stick around for another try, or keep it at being friends? I like this guy a lot, but I don't want to have sex with him again...I'm a believer in sexual chemistry and while it doesn't have to be fantastic the first couple of times, there has to be some potential there.
What do you think? Am I being shallow?
Would you stick around for another try, or keep it at being friends? I like this guy a lot, but I don't want to have sex with him again...I'm a believer in sexual chemistry and while it doesn't have to be fantastic the first couple of times, there has to be some potential there.
What do you think? Am I being shallow?
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Firstly have you tried TALKING to him about it?
Secondly, It takes a couple times in bed to work out what really works for your partner. Sounds like it was all over in 30 seconds. :banghead: annoying, but it doesn't mean that it has to be all over. Personally I'd TALK to him and see what happens.
They are right that you can't do anything about chemistry, but it can sometimes take a little bit of time to develop.
I was in exactly the same position as you, dumped the girl and ended up regretting it. (Luckilly we are back together now :yippe: )
Enjoy.