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Girls virginity growing back??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Basically Ive been with my girl for a long time now and we havn't had sex yet. Is it possible for her to get her 'virginity' back? We tried last night and she stopped because it hurt like her first time. She was well lubed and relaxed and ready as well. :confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    technically, once you've had sex you are no longer a virgin and that's it....it doesnt come back. If it hurt her and was well lubed etc....she probably was still abit nervous .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Umm... the hymen doesn't grow back. However, the vaginal tract, due to the lack of sexual episodes, could have retracted back to its original width. Just a guess.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A lot of people view virginity as a state of mind rather than focusing everything on a flap of skin, or worrying about whether they were penetrated by a millimetre of the end of whatever object/body part it is.

    If losing ones virginity soley consists of the penetration of the vagina with a penis, then we have a lot of lesbian and gay virgins out there!

    Try not to worry about not getting it perfect first time round, it happened to quite a few of my friends, best thing to do is concentrate on being intimate with the person you love rather than worrying about whether you can get something back which nowadays has way to much of the spotlight on its importance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    junker wrote:
    However, the vaginal tract, due to the lack of sexual episodes, could have retracted back to its original width.

    It the walls of the vagina aren't distended, then they're always touching, i.e. they sort of collapse on themselves and rest against each other. Most textbooks make the mistake of showing the vagina with this huge great big piece of air in the middle, and they do the same for the uterus too.

    And the number of sexual encounters or the frequency doesn't 'loosen' a woman either, as the vaginal walls are very muscular. Each woman is different and so will have differing strength and tone to the walls, which is why some woman may seem 'tighter' than others, it has very little to do with their sexual activities.

    The theory of looseness was just brought about by someone to keep us good little girls in check to stop us being dirty sluts :yes:
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