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why are men headfucks?
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Right this is long winded but im bored so heyho.
met this guy afew months ago through a mutual friend we started talkin mainly via text and had afew long phone chats in three nights into it all he was abit drunk told me on the phone he really really liked me ect bearing in mind hes 17,well anyway because of his job hes always like around girls and hes slept with load of people basically shagged his way through last year
so we went out for a day to the park and for tea and stuff and he was amazing told me he wanted to change and he wanted it to be different and he wanted a proper relationship ect
aftr that day it got thinner and thinner we started to talk less see each other less and it got really to the point that we argued because i hated being fucked around.
the main thing is when i see him hes really lovey dovey with me yet he doesnt answer my calls very often and more or less never answers my texts,but tonight he rings me makes me meet him comes up to me puts his arm round me kisses me ect and now again he doesnt reply to my texts leaving me with a kiss and 'ill call u in the week'
I cat cope with him anymore hes messing my head up majorly.
before you say it ive tried the whole deleting his number ignoring him ect but i dont have the willpower to do it.
so what do i do?
met this guy afew months ago through a mutual friend we started talkin mainly via text and had afew long phone chats in three nights into it all he was abit drunk told me on the phone he really really liked me ect bearing in mind hes 17,well anyway because of his job hes always like around girls and hes slept with load of people basically shagged his way through last year
so we went out for a day to the park and for tea and stuff and he was amazing told me he wanted to change and he wanted it to be different and he wanted a proper relationship ect
aftr that day it got thinner and thinner we started to talk less see each other less and it got really to the point that we argued because i hated being fucked around.
the main thing is when i see him hes really lovey dovey with me yet he doesnt answer my calls very often and more or less never answers my texts,but tonight he rings me makes me meet him comes up to me puts his arm round me kisses me ect and now again he doesnt reply to my texts leaving me with a kiss and 'ill call u in the week'
I cat cope with him anymore hes messing my head up majorly.
before you say it ive tried the whole deleting his number ignoring him ect but i dont have the willpower to do it.
so what do i do?
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this guy sounds like a using prick, get rid of him!
I agree it doesn't sound like it is her fault. To be honest I think you should just forget about him, he really isn't worth it. Just go out there and find a really nice decent guy who treats you right. Don't worry you can do it :thumb:
I just dont get why if he isnt interested at all does he still come back:|
At the end of the day, if he really cared for you then he'd make more of an effort to see you but it seems he only wants this relationship as a back up that has to fit round his schedule.
I've been there myself. Ya just need to cut yourself free. Living in denial that it will get better is just going to cause you more heartache. Delete his number and move on is my best advice.
If he had any respect for you what so ever he wouldny treat you like that.
You have to decide whether you are going to put up with things the way they are or whether you've had enough of being taken for a ride. (No pun intended).
Good luck with it, what ever you decide.
Can you say this guy is playing mindgames...er yes.Tell him to spin.