I think my bf is cheating on me ..

Former Member · July 2005

I think my bfriend is cheating on me, but i dont have any proof.. how can i get his yahoo password. We dont live together so keylogger wont work, i need to get remotely into his computer or is there an easier way. thx

Anybody there to share some knowledge ?

Thanks

Former Member · July 2005

why do u think he is cheating on you?

Former Member · July 2005

i dont think hacking into his email account is the right way to sort this out. talking to him is the best way!

Former Member · July 2005

You need to talk to him, hacking into email accounts isn't going to solve the problem, and just say you are wrong about his cheating and he finds out you have been checking up on him the relationship will be over.

If you do think he is cheating you need to talk to him about it and tell him the reasons you have for suspecting he's cheating. Without the communicating there is no point in having a relationship.

Former Member · July 2005

I know he is cheating ....

I know he is cheating .... I just want some good solid proofs ...
So that I can slap his face . I have seen him cybering a couple of time over the net . I just want to make sure he is serious on that .
Then i will kick his ass.

Thanks .

Former Member · July 2005

Don't trust your boyfriend? How are you so certain he's cheating? Have you actually caught him in bed with someone else, for example? I have no idea what good getting his Yahoo! password will do. If he is cheating, you may have the proof, but if he isn't, and he finds out you've been checking his e-mails, he's not going to trust you anymore. Put simply: proceed with caution. You don't want to make the situation even more difficult, do you?

Former Member · July 2005

Suzana78 wrote:

I know he is cheating .... I just want some good solid proofs ...
So that I can slap his face . I have seen him cybering a couple of time over the net . I just want to make sure he is serious on that .
Then i will kick his ass.

Thanks .

cyber sex is not cheating hunni...it's only fun, a weird fun admitantly, just phone him and tell him how you feel...

Former Member · July 2005

turlough wrote:

cyber sex is not cheating hunni...it's only fun, a weird fun admitantly, just phone him and tell him how you feel...

These days, it's hard to tell what does constitute as cheating.

If it's upsetting you however, best speak to him.

Former Member · July 2005

talking dirty on a computer screen and being caught in bed with someone else are two totally different things altogether

Former Member · July 2005

turlough wrote:

talking dirty on a computer screen and being caught in bed with someone else are two totally different things altogether

What I'm referring to is the emotional side. Assuming there's been cybersex going on, she might think "why doesn't he want cybersex with me? Am I not good enough for that", for example. I see what you mean there, though.

Former Member · July 2005

These days, it's hard to tell what does constitute as cheating.

I think this is very true, if he doesn't think of it as cheating he might think you're all ok with it.

Talk. Ask him about it.

Former Member · July 2005

Cazzoo wrote:

I think this is very true, if he doesn't think of it as cheating he might think you're all ok with it.

At the time, I was thinking about a talk show on the radio. The subject that night was cheating. None of the callers could decide on a definition of the word. Neither could any of the presenters. Some said cheating was kissing someone else. A few thought oral sex was crossing the mark, and one believed it was impossible to cheat on someone. Don't understand that one mysself, but I'm just saying definitions vary so much.

Dr Pirate · July 2005

Hacking into someones email address is highly illegal.

Cyber sex isn't cheating.

Get a life ;<

Former Member · July 2005

Dr Pirate wrote:

Hacking into someones email address is highly illegal.

Are you sure about that?

Former Member · July 2005

Privacy tbh. I would feel cheated on if my b/f cybered though.

Former Member · July 2005

i must admit, if i found out my bf was havin cybersex with other ppl over the net, i would be fuming and i think i would possibly class that as cheatin.

Former Member · July 2005

Why do you need proof.

You don't trust him.

Leave.

Why do you feel the need to slap his face/kick his arse?

Former Member · July 2005

pirate - yeah, aint that summat to do with the data protection act

Former Member · July 2005

Hmm chill out !!

Dear Sujana ,
You can rather look on google to search for people who spy on emails .
It isnt that tough to find people provinding email-survellience .
ANd if you still cant do that also and require spoon feeding ,ask me lol

Former Member · July 2005

Suzana78 wrote:

I know he is cheating .... I just want some good solid proofs ...
So that I can slap his face . I have seen him cybering a couple of time over the net . I just want to make sure he is serious on that .
Then i will kick his ass.

Thanks .

Life is too short to hold this much anger.

Move on.

Former Member · July 2005

Whether he is or isnt cheating on you now at this stage the trust issue is as serious. If you cant trust each other shouldn't be togther!I dont think i'd be abl to sustain a relationship with no trust-
So whether he is or he isn't the realtionship is now in its last threads and you will need talk to him or it will be dead long before its over!

Former Member · July 2005

You obviously don't trust him, and that's telling something about you and your relationship with this guy. Either speak to him about it (if he denies, and you find out later that he WAS cheating, then you have reason to be angry etc) or just break it off, because it is extremely hard if not impossible to have a relationship without trust.

Former Member · July 2005

Hacking his Yahoo is not a good move.

Ask him. Without communication your relationship definately won't work..

Former Member · July 2005

stargalaxy wrote:

What I'm referring to is the emotional side. Assuming there's been cybersex going on, she might think "why doesn't he want cybersex with me? Am I not good enough for that", for example. I see what you mean there, though.

Maybe he ain't getting his hole.

Former Member · July 2005

stargalaxy wrote:

These days, it's hard to tell what does constitute as cheating. If it's upsetting you however, best speak to him.

What constitutes cheating for a lot of people doesn't for me. Which is why I'm a firm believer discretion is key

Cybersex is funny though, 99% of the time it's 3 or 4 people laughing their arse of at the other side

. (one of those people being moi!)

Former Member · July 2005

If you don't trust him then there's no hope for the relationship, regardless of whether he is cheating or not.

Flirting online- there's nothing wrong with it if you are secure in your relationship. And if you're not the online flirting isn't the prioblem anyway.

**helen** · July 2005

Suzana78 wrote:

I think my bfriend is cheating on me, but i dont have any proof.. how can i get his yahoo password. We dont live together so keylogger wont work, i need to get remotely into his computer or is there an easier way. thx

Anybody there to share some knowledge ?

Thanks

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Take care!

Former Member · July 2005

i think cybersex is more than flirting really isnt it. Its the sort of thing you should cut out if youre in a relationship. If you know hes doing it, why do u need to have the extra proof?

Former Member · July 2005

Suzana78 wrote:

I think my bfriend is cheating on me, but i dont have any proof.. how can i get his yahoo password. We dont live together so keylogger wont work, i need to get remotely into his computer or is there an easier way. thx

Anybody there to share some knowledge ?

Thanks

if I was him, and I knew you intended to spy on him becuase of your insecurities, you'd be gone.

suspician is one thing that should lead to diplomatic confrontation, you need to ask him. Go behind his back and spy on him, and you are just as bad as him (if he is indeed cheating).

Former Member · July 2005

~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

I wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was having cyber sex on the net with other girls.

It would really upset me and I would class it as cheating.

I'd class it as cheating too.

Its very hard for you as i can tell and You need to make a list of things he's doing/done to make you think he's seeing some one else. and ask him about it.

I found text's on my other halfs mobile a while back and ask him about it straight away and he explained this lass was trying it on and he had a go at her about it.
Do your best to keep your head hun.

Good luck xxx

I think my bf is cheating on me ..

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