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What's attractive?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hiya!

I would like to know what what other girls think is attractive whan a bloke is chattin u up or hittin on u or woteva u wanna call it! Cos I think it is really UNattractive when a bloke tries to chat u up sayin stuff like "yea i'll take u for a RIDE in my car" Ok i admit it mayb flattering but I'd rather him b all romantic and stuff, that's prob just me but hey!

So what do all u girls think? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey sorry peeps ignore the spellings at the start of the post - it's early! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When my current bf "chatted me up" I didn't realise it at all, just thought he was just being nice, and then he suddenly kissed me in the night club.....
    Pretty sadly, we met at a Labour AGM (hmmm, an idea for a new thread - "what is the saddest place you met a bf/gf") and I thought he seemed nice, but didn't imagine he'd be interested in me. I then got talking to him (and the others) in the union bar and everyone went on to an indian restaurant. I sat next to him in the restaurant and we shared a bottle of wine, then he persuaded me to go with him and a few others to the club. Perhaps I was just being thick, not realising, but it was definately a whole lot nicer than being leered chat up lines at. Then again we were pretty drunk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it's attractive when the guy has something in common with me and is comfortable around me and doesn't make too many passes at me. I like to know a person for more than 5 minutes before they try and kiss me. good conversation is always a turn on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Meryn:
    (hmmm, an idea for a new thread - "what is the saddest place you met a bf/gf")

    Erm, well i met my g/f on poetry course, i think th@s pretty sad innit lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    [This message has been edited by Damn Right (edited 28-05-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i keep on meeting people on the internet, which is annoying me now. i mean, once fair enough, 2 accidental.... but anything more than that is excessive, right?

    but i still think its a good way of meeting people, you get to know their personality and whether you get on or not before you meet and it gives you a better idea of what theyre like instead of meeting in a nightclub, IMHO. but it was completely accidental, all the meeting of bfs and stuff, just people ive got talking to and realised that i get on with and stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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