Guys opinions please!

Former Member · May 2001

I was just wondering what guys think of the no sex b4 marriage thing? Cos my b/f hated the idea of it, it's too late now lol, but I just wanted to know if guys think it's stupid or woteva.

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Former Member · May 2001

it's stupid.

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Former Member · May 2001

damn stupid (my opinion)

Former Member · May 2001

Wot about if it was ur g/f who for some religious reason coulnt do it b4, wot would u say then?

Former Member · May 2001

i'd accept her reasoning, but she wouldnt be my girlfriend.

*shallow and proud of it*

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Former Member · May 2001

It really depends on how much i loved the person. If i loved them and wanted to spend the rest of my life with them, i wouldn't force them into anything or give an ultimatum to them.

Former Member · May 2001

I wouldn't push her into anythin she wouldn't wanna do. This is the way things go with my g/f. We talk about stuff 1st and we both have to be 100% okay with it before anythin happans. I'd never push her into anythin cos i do love her and hope to be with her forever. If ur in this situation dont worry - if they like u they'll respect ur decision <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">

Hurry up and wait

Former Member · May 2001

Nope I'm not in this situation, I've already done it hehe <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> I was just wondering how u guys felt about it that's all!

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Former Member · May 2001

As the Ego said, i love my g/f and if she said th@s wat she wante then i'd appreciate th@. Does th@ rule apply 2 other stuff aswell? Hmmmm opened a whole new can o worms there, o well neva 2 mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">p

Who's name does God use in vain?

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Former Member · May 2001

That IS my gf's reasoning, except she doesn't agree with her parents religious idea of it. She is strongly religious but believes in "No sex before LOVE". So in other words, she isn't bothered whether she gets married or not, but she isn't going to have sex until she is truely in love. Her parents tell her she is wrong and she will be punisihed by god for this belief, and she should not have sex until she is married.

I ain't gonna force her. I'll let her come on to me. (Ha ha, like she'd wanna do that).

Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by Insane:
That IS my gf's reasoning, except she doesn't agree with her parents religious idea of it. She is strongly religious but believes in "No sex before LOVE". So in other words, she isn't bothered whether she gets married or not, but she isn't going to have sex until she is truely in love. Her parents tell her she is wrong and she will be punisihed by god for this belief, and she should not have sex until she is married.

I ain't gonna force her. I'll let her come on to me. (Ha ha, like she'd wanna do that).

that's a reasoning i can agree with, altho chances are wont implement.

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Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by Turtle:
that's a reasoning i can agree with, altho chances are wont implement.

Brings me back to post where I said i'd devirginise you, turtle.. You won't be falling in love with me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">

Have you ever confused a dream with life?

Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by freya:

Brings me back to post where I said i'd devirginise you, turtle.. You won't be falling in love with me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">

wow...that makes so little sense to my alcohol boggled brain it just isn't funny.

why wouldn't i fall in love iwht u, is the only semi-intellgent question i can ask. hope it's relevant :P

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Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by Turtle:

why wouldn't i fall in love iwht u, is the only semi-intellgent question i can ask. hope it's relevant :P

I think she means you'd only be doing it for the LUST!!! Have fun, cyber shaggers <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> oops, that's a differen't topic, innit? Oh well.

Former Member · May 2001

I think that losing your virginity is something to first be shared w/ someone you love. But after that, it's not as big of a deal. I can understand how ppl can say no sex b4 marraige, but i don't agree. My last g/f was Christian and she wouldn't have wanted to have sex until marraige, but thats ok with me.

Blessed Be

Former Member · May 2001

well it depends on the person if she is a virgin then id respect it if not then i would question it abit

Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by jamie1983:
well it depends on the person if she is a virgin then id respect it if not then i would question it abit

wow. THAT makes sense. thikn about what u just wrote.

or at least try and explain it to my simple mind.

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Former Member · May 2001

Originally posted by jamie1983:
if she is a virgin then id respect it if not then i would question it abit

She could have learned from experience that sex means more to her than she thought it would, and wants to wait until marriage before she does it again?

Personally I agree with Insane's girlfriend, no sex before love (preferable reciprocated love, but I wouldn't say no to a one night thing with a guy I loved... but I'm aiming for one special person).

I'm not necessarily waiting until after marriage though, I think that's a bit too old-fashioned these days, and also if you hype it up to that extent you're going to be pretty disappointed about what the first time's like.

Girl-From-Mars · May 2001

Originally posted by Talimur:
I think that losing your virginity is something to first be shared w/ someone you love. But after that, it's not as big of a deal. I can understand how ppl can say no sex b4 marraige, but i don't agree.

yeah i agree with what you said talimur. i didnt have a bf until i was 16 and it took a while for us to build up to doing various different things up to sex, and it takes some time if its your first time i think. well, generally. but i wouldnt have had sex with someone i wasnt in a relationship with and who i wasnt in love with and who i knew loved me for the first time. but i agree, it isnt such a big deal after the first time. but i think sex is probably better in a loving relationship than just casual sex, because of involving emotions and everything and all the issues casual sex introduces.

but i think no sex before marriage is kinda outdated and i dont know many people who believe in that. but if its a religious thing, i respect their choices.

Guys opinions please!

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