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IM NOT A VIRGIN ANYMORE!!!!

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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....only im kinda, well , disappointed? i think? i just thought thered be a lot more to it than that, and im just well, i dunno? i just get the feelin that sex isnt all its cracked up to be. (?)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not.

    You spend most of your teenage years trying to have it, and the rest of wondering why you bothered.
    In your sad machines you'll forever stay, desperate and displeased, with whoever you are.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    It's not.

    You spend most of your teenage years trying to have it, and the rest of wondering why you bothered.


    Depends what its like, you obviously didnt have very good lovers to share your experience with. Ive had 2, my first was crap, at the tme i thought it was ok, and I was happy I did it.
    With my current gf sex is brilliant, and she enjoys it as much/if not more than me. It all depends who you are with, but believe me, I never wonder why I bother!
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    awww charley, dont worry. it does get better, ive found. it hurt me like hell at first for ages which didnt help! but my first bf was a virgin as well and we didnt really know what we were doing at first. anyway, it did get a lot better. even better in fact with my second bf <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; but i wont go there. but yes, it does depend who you're with. i guess everyone builds it up to be mind blowingly amazing, but it isnt always. sometimes it is though if you do it right with the right person in the right circumstances <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Charley, give it a couple more times and youll love it! if not, I'll show you what It's all about! I love a good shag! at the end of the day, you were probably worried about pain and getting caught rather than enjoying it. relax, find a guy who knows what he's doing and do it as much as possible, cos sex is brilliant!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by gt2masta:
    Charley, give it a couple more times and youll love it! if not, I'll show you what It's all about! I love a good shag! at the end of the day, you were probably worried about pain and getting caught rather than enjoying it. relax, find a guy who knows what he's doing and do it as much as possible, cos sex is brilliant!!!

    God help any women who do sleep with you cause you seem to think women are objects and are only good for 1 use. Why don't you just grown up?

    In my opinion I think your just trying to look big and it isn't smart. Your probably still a virgin. Not that its a bad thing or anything.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Broken Heart:
    God help any women who do sleep with you cause you seem to think women are objects and are only good for 1 use. Why don't you just grown up?

    hehe you beat me to it! i just called him a misogynist in the old thread he dug up. basically the same thing, only i was going to test him to see if he knew, coz i have a feeling he wouldnt. which he should do, as he is one!


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You'd be amazed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    i guess everyone builds it up to be mind blowingly amazing, but it isnt always.

    Apparently French kissing was invented as an alternative to sex because of the high birth rate in France.....

    Well maybe that was a joke, but anyway I'm not expecting sex to be any better than French kissing, which is why I'm not planning on doing it anytime soon (seeing as I would rather be doing most things than French kissing).

    Today one of my friends announced she's just lost her virginity, this is what she said:

    "It bloody hurt I can tell you....and guys, they are so stupid, you have to guide it in...." so why did you do it "Because after the first time it's great!"

    I don't know how true that is, but anyway - from what I've gathered, the first time isn't wonderful, and IMHO (no offence to anyone) too much fuss is made about losing your virginity. Someone has this quote as their signature, I think it just about sums it up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Virginity is like a balloon, one prick and it's gone forever
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:

    Well maybe that was a joke, but anyway I'm not expecting sex to be any better than French kissing, which is why I'm not planning on doing it anytime soon

    thats literally what it was like.

    and no i wasnt worried about pain it never hurt that much, and i dont think there was ANY chance of us gettin caught

    yeh he knew what he was doin, wellhe had more idea than me anyway

    and no hewasnt a prick neither
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by charley:
    and no he wasnt a prick neither

    No offence meant, I just liked the quote.

    Maybe it will get better over time and maybe it won't, I can't really tell you even my experiences, but I hope that whatever happens you have fun.
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