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i cant cum...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I CANT CUM...I have had many sexual partners over the past five years and i still cant. I LOVE HAVING SEX ive tried everyting am i abnormal ???

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh katie, u obviously have met the right partner yet! Do u cum when u r on your own, cos if u do why dont u feel comfortable enough to tell your partner(s) EXACTLY what to do to make u float the boat?!! It'll all work out babe Gxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I cant even cum when i play with myself...but i do enjoy it. My last relationship broke up because i told him about my problem and he thought it was his fault
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I learnt something the other day, but it was just by word of mouth, so i wouldn't quite believe- it but smokig methanol cigarettes can stop you from cuming, i you don't smoke, ignore the preceeding, an unhealthy diet can also do that as well... but i don't even know how true it....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont smoke... do you think i need to consult a docter?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think that smoking has really got ne thing to do with it. it might be coz u r stressing to much! i didnt think that i was ever going to cum but then i had a steady boyf and tried all sotrs of things. eventually it did happen (after years of trying) but honestly, the best thing to do is relax!! (though getting on top done it for me!!!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just be patient, getting frustrated and stressed will only add to the problem. Get your partner to take his time and relax yourself, the pressure of tring to cum won't help either of you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its ok i kinda have a similar dilemma if i go on top i build up to an orgasm (ya know the feelings n everything) but it doesnt actually happen <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; i reaaaaaaallllllly want it to
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I couldn't cum last nite.

    Couldn't think of anybody! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    I'll die before I surrender.
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