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Girlfriend trouble asap
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Well I say girlfriend but technically I mean ex. You see my girlfriend on wednesday told me tht she didnt have any feelings for me blah blah blah the other day and tht she wanted to end it with me.
I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and shes the kind of person who dosent think straight in a lot of things if ya know what I mean so its hard to see what she really feels as shes done this about three times now in similar explanations.
She says we can still be friends and go out places but nothing more. My mom said I should not contact her for a few days to let her think about things and allow her to miss me so it makes her think as at the moment I am always there for her to talk to so she is not apart from me as such at the moment.
What do you guys think please help me ASAP!
Thanks Guys
I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and shes the kind of person who dosent think straight in a lot of things if ya know what I mean so its hard to see what she really feels as shes done this about three times now in similar explanations.
She says we can still be friends and go out places but nothing more. My mom said I should not contact her for a few days to let her think about things and allow her to miss me so it makes her think as at the moment I am always there for her to talk to so she is not apart from me as such at the moment.
What do you guys think please help me ASAP!
Thanks Guys
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No offense, but she's a little flaky if this has happened three times already. Twice is enough, but three? I'm sorry but if she can't figure out her feelings, you might want to rethink your relationship. Nothing will benefit for you if you keep waiting around her to change her mind.
Sorry if you found me a little blunt, here. Hope I was of some help.
For instance today i was mucking around and then she says on msn oh why u been rude ure blocked, she thinks that things are ok to block someone then shell ublock me later on tonight or in a few days when shes calmed down and thought about it , do you think if I dont go on msn for a few days shell think about all of this.
She sounds about 12 years old. Ignore her for a few days and then put your foot down. Tell her to stop treating you like a bitch, and if she continues this behaviour - threatening to split up etc - then just walk away. Plenty more fish and all that. Her being the "talk now think later" type doesn't escuse her rotten attitude.
what else do you want people on here to do?!!! There comes a point when you have to accept the fact that she might not want to be with you and leave it, no matter how hard it is! You never know she might change her mind if she goes a while without you, or she might not!