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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
This is a question for all you guys? wat attracts you to a girl most all the guys i met seem to be total twats who just dont give a shite about who or wat you are.

I want some feedback please x <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok i know i'm not a guy but what the hey!
    In my experience of dating men...and pulling men, and generally just watching what they do! I have discovered that men like honest girls, who have a sense of humour but can be silly/soppy when it's appropriate.
    The fact that 4 out of 6 of my best mates happen to be guys helps! I get to hang out with all the guys and learn all about what they get upto! Even on the guys nights out i'm usually invited cos i really am best friends with them! It's great. So i get to hear about all the things they like in girls.
    You don't have to be really pretty or slim, but it does help. Hmmm what else, oh yeah, you need to be able to put up with the constant farts, burps, comments about lesbiens and general bloke stuff! I've become immune to all that now!
    Hope i've helped in some way! And welcome to The Site aswell - i noticed you're the newest member! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Looks....

    Thats what initially attracts 99% of men and women. Its after that initial attraction that the personality comes into it...Be very honest, have a good sense of humour and have common sense and you wont go far wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i agree with ya !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well Im glad thats all sorted then.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In all seriousness right..

    If i was looking for a girlfriend, id have to say that Humour,Honesty and sumone who treats everyone as an equal.

    What also plays a part is: Of course u have to have looks in there sumwhere for the attraction... Eyes play a big part in attraction and the Smile!

    Dont u often find pulling gets so boring after a while??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats why ive given up on pulling...Only looking for a girlfriend. Its always the same these days, same pubs/clubs, same girls, same nights..

    Now I just need to find my perfect girl(Hyori)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Am I being incredibly dumb not knowing who Hyori is? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with that, You often find yourself going from one girl to another and realising that pullin jus feels the same at times but ur jus pulling a girl who u thinks fit but u wished u had as a girlfriend...( not saying to you personally u understand )

    I think you grow out of it at some stage and want to move onto newer things such as exploring how a relationship works and what happens.

    Anyways, that all happens when your young.. its a part of life. No longer will u be saying i really wana pull that girl and you do, but ull end up saying i really wana poke her and u do cos u moved on from pullin... do u catch my drift?? things change as u get more experienced.

    But in my view.. its all about findin the right girl to spend ur time with.

    Peace <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Narcotic:
    <STRONG>Am I being incredibly dumb not knowing who Hyori is? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Click on my website linky thing..thats her.
    Originally posted by Disco Harmony:
    <STRONG>I agree with that, You often find yourself going from one girl to another and realising that pullin jus feels the same at times but ur jus pulling a girl who u thinks fit but u wished u had as a girlfriend...( not saying to you personally u understand )
    </STRONG>

    heh, that is exactly how I feel...I want a decent girlfriend, not some temporary shags.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog:
    <STRONG>Click on my website linky thing..thats her.</STRONG>

    Now I see <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey there, Speaking as a 30 year old guy, In a social setting, the first thing that would attract me to a girl is her confidence, The way she holds her presence in the room/pub/club, You know what I'm talking about, The girl you notice in a crowd of 100 others. I don't mean neccisairly "loud", just confident. After that it is iniatially looks, then personality. However if you get to talk to her, looks can fade into insignificance. I hope you know what I mean, The kind of girl you see and think to yourself "I wish I knew her" Cheers.
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