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bad experience brought up again!
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please help me sort this out! i was seeing this guy about 6 months ago and we sort of ended on bad terms after he fingered me coz he pressurized me into letting him. he's in my year at school and recently he told some of his mates about it (u know how blokes boast about everything!)
Anyway, 1 of his mates who i happened 2 quite like (but not any more) has now spread it round the whole year and all these guys keep asking me if the 'rumour' is true. i never wanted anyone 2 find out about it coz its not the type of thing i'd normally do. i dont know whether 2 ring my ex and ask wot his problem is or just keep my head held high and pretend it never happened.
wot does every1 else think?
Anyway, 1 of his mates who i happened 2 quite like (but not any more) has now spread it round the whole year and all these guys keep asking me if the 'rumour' is true. i never wanted anyone 2 find out about it coz its not the type of thing i'd normally do. i dont know whether 2 ring my ex and ask wot his problem is or just keep my head held high and pretend it never happened.
wot does every1 else think?
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bye!!!
tell all his mates that he tryed to get you to give him a bit of wrist action but he was so small <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> you couldt do it because you were laughing way to much at his little maggot. and if you could do it to him u'd have to use twezzers or sumfing! tell everyone that he cant kiss to save his life and that he told you he has one ball or sumfing! what can i say? im the vengeful type <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> DONT GET MAD! GET EVEN!
He finger you, told a mate, his friend told everyone else you can't blame your ex, he has the right to tell his mate what he likes, just like you have the right to tell your friends about him.
If you must be mad at someone be mad at his friend who told everyone. Your bf has not really done anything wrong
the thing is it wasn't just 1 mate my ex told it woz a whole bunch of them when they were havin a sick boast about how far they've got. i think its sick 2 treat girls like objects which can be used then chucked away i mean girls do chat about it but we dont spread it to the whole world, just close mates who we know can keep a secret!
loopy loz xxx
I'm with Harmless on this one. Guys talk in exactly the same way as women do. You should hear some of the stories myself and my mates tell ..... !!! Okay so maybe girls don't 'boast' but if someone tells someone else something (what?) then you can never guarantee that it won't get passed on. The same has obviously happened here ... your ex-b/f has told his pals and one of them has taken it upon himself to make a big deal out of it. Just goes to show how childish this guy is!!
Anyway, back to the question in hand, just don't get wound up about it ... it will all blow over in a few days. Gossip is just, well, gossip and something else will come along for people to talk about soon enough. Just hold your head high and walk proud.
<IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I think you've got to be a little more open-minded about life and sex,you'll always get couples gropping each other,but I agree,it should be done in private.Take care. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">