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Where did the clitoris go? PLEASE HELP ME!
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I have an absolutely wonderful girlfriend. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. To have someone this wonderful, I would want to have something wonderful happen to her, like an orgasm. Well, I have tried a few times with mediocre results. A little while ago, I bought the book "the guide to getting it on." It has some useful stuff in there, and I tried what it told me. I was able to do things ok after that. Then, all of a sudden... there it goes. The clit, as I understand it, retreats into its hood. It's supposidly a pre-orgasmic response, but... I couldn't find it anymore. I searched, she searched, it was like it wasn't there anymore. I was far from succeeding now. It was all downhill from there. What do I do in that situation? Is there any specific way of finding it again? What do I rub now? Also, she is about as clueless as I am. She does not masterbate, I am her first encounter. She said she has tried to give herself an orgasm and failed.
I tell her she's beutiful and everything, because she is. I spend tons of time with her. We have such a connection, so the emotional aspect is there, but after about five tries of giving her an orgasm, it is hopeless. Can anyone help me?
I tell her she's beutiful and everything, because she is. I spend tons of time with her. We have such a connection, so the emotional aspect is there, but after about five tries of giving her an orgasm, it is hopeless. Can anyone help me?
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before i suceeded in giving myself an orgasm i had, had nemerous attempts!tell ur gf that she will need 2 make sure she is relaxed and there is no chance of some1 walking in when she is masturbating.
stimulating the clit may take sum time 2 bring her to orgasm but the more practice she gets the easier it will be.
i am baffled at the "disapearing clit" thing so i have no idea bout that.
but all i can say is if ur gf gets worked up about not being able 2 orgasm it will become harder and harder.
goodluck! luv jl
well as for the vanasion clit i dont know?! surely when you start to feel good it gets bigger?!
as for not comeing, maybe she needes something with a bit more pressure try a spray from a shower. ive known it to work in the past! wink wink nudge nudge
or try let her touch you whilst you try rubbing her clit?
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OUCH, THATS ABOUT AS BAD AS GETTING HALF YOUR DICK LOPPED OFF!!! (at least i'm guessing, cuz from the way my g/f reacts...)
Blessed Be
Even when I`m bringing her off, I just can`t find the sod. Can anyone give me a hand here.
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I don't usually actually "see" it while I'm down on my g/f. But if you move your tongue in that general area, you'll prolly feel it. Also, try moving your tongue just under where things open up, that might help.
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