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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hello to you all,

My name is Leon and I currently live and work in Brighton / East Sussex - I'm 21 years of age with funky hair and love spending time with my girlfriend.
Currently having a few "mental" problems at the moment .. haha Not as bad it sounds.
So any help would be appreciated.
I recently moved from "up north" to "down south" to be with my girlfriend - we met online and since then it's being perfect !!
In a past relationship I was walked all over, promised the world with comments such as "i'll never leave you, never cheat on you, etc etc" but 9 months later I ended up with an STI of which was impossible for me to catch as she was my first!!
Bloody typical !! LOL... it's good that I can laugh about it now, but the after-math was horrible, and still is to this very day !
apart from making me very in-secure about myself, it's also effecting my new relationship ! Her going out clubbing causes me to have doubts and worry .. and I just wish i could get rid of the damn Gremlin inside me which tell's me to be worried..

I never check up on my girlfriend - I never tell her what she can and can't do ! I like her to dress well (which she does anyway), i'm the sort of guy who does anything for the girl he love's.. if she says "god im a bit thirsty" without even thinking twice about it i'll run down the to the kitchen and make her a drink ! i'm just a big soft really..

I'm looking for some help really.... how can I put the past behind me ? remove the gremlin that worry's when my girlfriend is out clubbing and surrounded by lager-louts and Meat-Market clubbers ?

Any help would be appreciated.
Thank you so much

Leon C xxx

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    welcome :D.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol why thank you :-)

    xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LeonC
    lol why thank you :-)

    xx

    hehe
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tweety - thank you for pointing me in the right direction ! you've really helped me today - very much appreciated.
    I will have this page/forum open every day whilst i'm at work so feel free to shout me anytime you like.

    Us Bankers don't really have a life outside of work you see ;-) nice to have some company during the day.

    Feel free to tell me more about yourself :-)

    Leon xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No problem, i am normally found in anything goes forum. Pm me if you wanna know more though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alright!

    as i said before, good to see more people from brighton and the surrounding areas on this board.

    if you get bored theres a chat room which some of the members on here use (myself included), you can get to it via the link in my sig.

    welcome aboard!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers pal, appreciated.

    Nice chat room by the way, i'll come in again soon - just gotta do what i'm paid to do - WORK
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LeonC? Is that Leon The Cleaner ;<?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A cleaner ? Hmmm that make's alot of sense !! ;-(

    p/s - no i'm not a cleaner.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welcome, Leon!

    (Just a note to say that I've read your posts on the relationships thread, and hope everything is going well for you. You sound like a fabulous guy, and for what it's worth - me thinks your girlfriend wont be letting you loose from her grip anytime soon).

    All the best.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bohemian - Very much appreciated, thank you for your kind word's xxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heya!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heeeeellllllllloooooooooooooo welcome :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welcome to the website!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi all,

    Thank you for welcoming me to the website,and thank you very much for some of your very kind comments ! really appreciated :-)

    Leon xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Leon, i welcome you here i have found it as a great place so far but i have a guestion im new to and i cant figure out how do 2 start a thread?????? i cant figure it out!! :confused:
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