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Who beleieves in sex before marraiage?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Like i just wanna know who thinks u should wait for sex till u get hitched or u should just do it anyway. I personally think u should just have fun and if u r ready go 4it!Theres no point waiting till u r old and wrinkly to experience 1 of the best sensations u will eva get. Sex is fun and pleasurable so y not just do it now instead of wasting your chances. What does every1 else think?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i personally am mixed on that. i agree sex CAN be fun (but it can also be shit), but i think before i next have sex i'd rather be in a relationship (not married), instead of just going out with a guy and having shit sex for the sake of it, with no love behind it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by charley:
    i personally am mixed on that. i agree sex CAN be fun (but it can also be shit), but i think before i next have sex i'd rather be in a relationship (not married), instead of just going out with a guy and having shit sex for the sake of it, with no love behind it

    Yeh i agree with Charley, i think sex is a whole lot better if it's with someone ur in a releationship with, it just gives a better all round feeling.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think u should wait till ur married b4 having sex but i think u should be in a proper relationship b4 having sex wit sum1.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think that everyone feels about this differently. my personal opinion is ... if it feels right, do it, under any circumstances. if you're careful and use protection, it's cool.

    i think the general idea is to know who you're sleeping with if you're younger, but once you can have a descent judge of character, use your judgement.

    sex is fun, and should be enjoyed. anyone who thinks sex is taboo, or filthy, obviously has a problem with it. they're probably not getting enough, or haven't even experienced it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah you wanna use protection, theres nothing worse than worrying.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that if you love each other than you should be allowed sex any time over 14. but thats just me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would say -
    Sex before marriage - FINE
    sex before you're ready - bad move.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't believe in any physical contact before marridge....jk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Seriously, I'd only do it to somebody I truelly trusted and cared for because
    A, I'm a virgin and
    B, trust means more to me than anything.

    I doubt I'll ever get married anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Best to have sex before marriage, becuase you can be damned sure you won't get much afterwards...

    (j/k from nine-year married man) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Look, if BOTH of you wanna do it before hand then do, if not - don't. Its fairly simple - remember that 50 years ago you wouldn't even have considered the question.

    Good luck to you all...and remember play safe.
    "Perhaps my best years are gone, but I wouldn't want them back. Not with the fire in me now." - Samuel Beckett
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seeing as i'm never gonna get married i thought it'd be a good idea not to wait till i was to have sex.
    If words could kill, i'd spell out your name.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ho ho ho
    I agree - In fact Just try to do it lots
    I'm not married but I've been in a relationship for 7 years and sex don't live here any more!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i believe in sex b4 marriage. you got to try it out b4 your stuck with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally I believe in the try b4 u buy theroy! Any1 agree? But morals are up 2 the indivual, with this being a moral issue I think it's up to the individual! U do what u feel is right 4 u.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its s bit late for me, but if i had the chance to chose again, i dont know what id do..... hmmmmmmmmmmm
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really do believe that there is nothing wrong with it, however if you are brought up being told it is wrong wrong wrong, it must be really hard to get over it without feeling guilty.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is one of those things that ppl can't tell u the answer to, they can only voice their oppinion. I'm not going to wait till i get married beofre i have sex, but that's me. Even if u have been bought up being told sex b 4 marriage is wrong, i think when it comes to crunch time, you're feelings will prob over-rule morals... but then
    I wouldn't know, hehe
    xxxxAngel
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