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Spice it up

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hello i'm new and I was just wandering if any one could give me ne advice about sex. I have been wiv my b/f 4 over a year now and I wanted 2 know if if theres any way of spicing up our love life. We seem 2 just make love in the missionary position now, I dont know how 2 make it ne better. Also sometimes I just want 2 turn him over and ride him, I guess I have so much respect 4 him it's hard to experiment sexually wiv some1 u have been with 4 so long.
I would appreciate any advice thanx X

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What can we say? You know what you want to do to liven things up so just do them for Christ's sake!

    Problem solved!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think in order to have great sex you need to be able to talk to your partner. Try telling him what you want, you never know he may want the same, but is just imbarrased to say anything. Either talk or just take control & tell him to lie down & just take things slowly & try & make it so you both enjoy it.
    You will never know without trying so just give it a go.
    good luck
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya thanx 4 your replies. I'm worried because I know I need 2 talk 2 him but im not sure wot 2 say. I can see myself staying wiv him for the rest of my life but this sex thing is really starting to bother. I don't want it 2 mess things up between us-please help
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think we get the message <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some tips here: http://www.thesite.org/sex/general_sex/shake_up_your_sex_life.html

    Guide for newbies here: http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000001.html

    Welcome to TheSite <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Susie
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not being funny but if you've been with this bloke for over a year surely you should feel comfortable talking to him about sex!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi all...
    Just thought I'd say my bit <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    I know a lot of people that have problems talking about sex. Even after are married, and sometimes even after having kids. They know how to do 'it' but not how to make it more enjoyable for each other. This is a really common problem, and truth be told, gets worse not better over time.
    Start at the beginning. If you have been together for a while and not been very talkative about sex, be gentle <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; by starting with asking what they like. And just because they like it, doesn't mean you have to do it either. But also remember to try something before saying you don't like it... you never know! Remember that the whole sex thing should be enjoyable - and the person that can help with that enjoyment is your partner. Make sure s/he knows what you like, and you know what they like. Once that is out in the open, you can start experimenting with other things. And trust me... missionary position is not the most enjoyable for both partners!
    I hope this helps.
    Cheers
    MagicMan
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya thanx 4 all your replies. I've decided 2 be a bit confident and i'm taking my b/f away this week end so we will see what happens. I am a bit worried but I won't know if he will like it until we've tried it. I know I have a much higher sex drive than him so I hope he will still love me when he starts realizing this XX
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