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Sex - Quick or slow?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
My problem is I like a good long shag. Girls seem to get to feel insecure if the bloke starts prolonging a shag! Ok, fair enough sometimes like after a hard day's work a decent quickie is just what the doctor ordered, but there times when it's nice to spend a decent amount of "quality time" with your misses! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; At times I'd rather have twice a long shag and not actually cum than the other way round.

What are other people's views about this?

[This message has been edited by Ambition (edited 18-09-2001).]

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i agree, i prefere my b/f to just spend the time being close to me, it makes it more special than just a "two min sesh".
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There is such a thing as too much of a good thing. I find that 2-3 hour sessions are too long. I almost get raw if you know what I mean. To me, 30-45 min. is the best. I agree though that longer is better than 2 min.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the situation really.

    Sometimes you both just fancy a 5 minute quickie, which can be fun. Other times you're feeling romantic and fancy a longer session - although I'm not sure about 3 hours, personally I prefer an hour at a time becuase I get sore after that. But then again if you want a long session then there's plenty more you can do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; nudge nudge, wink wink!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Three minutes and am spent. Like it or lump it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    Three minutes and am spent. Like it or lump it!

    Weeel, i'm only a begginner and i can last longer than that and im sorry u have no stammina, I M NOT A NEWBIE, i just changed my name.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blackcode:
    I M NOT A NEWBIE, i just changed my name.....

    From what?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm...and then he falls silent.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think it depends on the mood - romantic or horny!
    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a massive problem... even if it's good sex, once i've had an orgasm, i want him to cum and get out of me, i get bored! Is that bad?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by punkinlondon:
    once i've had an orgasm, i want him to cum and get out of me, i get bored! Is that bad?![/B]

    I am exactly the same and if Im on top we have to switch places cause thats it I'm finished and he'll have to do the work.

    As for how long.... sometimes if Im really gagging for it then a quickie is the best thing but then if Im spending the night in with the b/f then its good to have a long session. It all depends on my mood. Its good to have lots of 20/30 minute sessions in one night aswell.
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