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Should I have?
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Hi folks - new here, so be nice :-)
Right then - this is the deal...met this girl at the weekend - she's 16, just. However, she looks and acts like she is at least 18.
She really wanted me - I mean big time. I'm not saying that in a boastful way, just to exaplint he situaion.
And I wanted her - so much - so was so fit - so much so that a little light relief in the toilet was called for!
Anyway - should I have gone for it? Trouble is I am 22! In the end, I settled for the wank and left. But now I'm wondering...?
Any thoughts?
Right then - this is the deal...met this girl at the weekend - she's 16, just. However, she looks and acts like she is at least 18.
She really wanted me - I mean big time. I'm not saying that in a boastful way, just to exaplint he situaion.
And I wanted her - so much - so was so fit - so much so that a little light relief in the toilet was called for!
Anyway - should I have gone for it? Trouble is I am 22! In the end, I settled for the wank and left. But now I'm wondering...?
Any thoughts?
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Depends on the two of you really. What might be right for some ppl with a 6 yr age gap might seem unthinkable to others. Did you just want a quick shag or were you thinking of something more? Cos at your age it's easy to be seen as taking advantage. Speaking from my own experience I don't think that the age gap is too bad, but that's just me and the fact that the person in question is very nice, and, (I hope) isn't the type to take advantage. He does seem a bit worried about the age though, but it depends on your friends and what they'd think i spose.
Sorry, I've just realised that that was no help at all, but there we go! Anyone else got anything better to post?
1) shagging a fit 16 year old,
and
2) a quick hand shandy in the bogs...
One of these seems a much better option than the other, and if you can't tell which...
I went out with a 31 year old when I was 23, and a 38 year old when I was 24, but am now married to a lovely lady one year younger <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
but... I must say that an 8 year gap at 23 is nothing like a 6 year gap from 16. Having said that... if both of you are happy with it (and you take precautions - the last thing you want is a pregnant 16 year old girlfriend) then I don't have a problem... intellectually that is. Somehow it doesn't feel right though, and obviously thats how you felt orgasmmaker.
I think it's your call... sorry.. not a lot of help
End of $0.02
If she was 15 then would ahve been a different matter but she was of legal consenting age and if you both wanted it...
its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif">
I am 16 and I am in this situation with a 25 yr old except it is me who is feeling the way you do.Is he taking advantage of me?Well I have come to a conclusion that I want it just as much as he does so I am gonna go for it for my enjoyment.We are taking advantage of each other.