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What we don't want here at TheSite!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Sorry about this but now that the oldies are leaving I think its up to us semis to bring thesite back up to its former glory to entice them back! Middlesbrototty drove me to this by posting soo many questions that were pretty much the same thing and were all pretty stupid and which we've seen hundreds of times before.

Don't just go blurting out stupid questions, do some research as we're all bored of "How do I give a blowjob".

I hope all the regulars agree with me that it's time to take a stand.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hello all
    I guess I'm kinda back
    Demon1d, I'm sorry but I don't really think it's fair for u to ask people not to ask certain questions. I mean it is a sex forum so the question "how do I give a blowjob" would be a pretty normal question.

    I do agree with you that haveing the same question over and over again it very annoying on the page. So maybe you could ask people to be more careful with there questions. Let newbies know that if you look back a page or two u most likely will find and answer for the more popular question.

    Sorry It's just a suggestion anyway

    TTFN
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/catman.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what, u think we've all left iann?

    well, i have, but i couldn't bear the thought of my beloved site sinking even further in to shit by ur backstabbing and wonderful building up of cliques.

    welcome back kitty, nice to have u here. j9 and luka and calvin all following behind u, are they?
    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey demon, i think your right, the middle aged ppl on here should bring it up out of the hole it's fallen into. come on everyone, lets get this board back to how it was, decent advice, not 11 year olds laughing about sex as taboo.
    Who's name does God use in vain?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    welcome back kitty, good to have you here again. turtle, good to hear from you as well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.

    i'd just like to say, that the people who have left, have left, and we can't really say or do much to bring them back. i myself have left here and come back several times, but for now i've decided to stick around for a bit to try to pull thesite back together, which i obviously can't do on my own. whatever happened to intelligent conversation, everyone being friends, and most of all, the community?

    i think we should stick together to try to restore thesite back to it's former glory, if thats possible.

    as for the sex forum, i think that reasonable questions are acceptable, but like many people have said, it's really annoying when you get the impression that some 11 year old is jacking off to your replies.

    someone said the other day that it would be a good idea to close the sex, drugs, and politics forums. personally i think that this is a bad idea, they are there to be used, and whether they are used "correctly" as such is up to the people who post in them.

    maybe i should have followed the "rules" and started a new thread for this, but i cant be arsed now that i've typed it all

    overall, i would just like to, with the aid of other people, help keep this site together.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fucking hell, i do come out with some crap sometimes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you've still go to remember that this isn't a meeting formum like a chat room but an advice place where people CAN be friendly. it's just we post so often we are all mates!! I do agree with the constant same questions only if there are like 20 posted by the same person! or ona topic already going and esp when someone posts the same one like in 4 different forums. why????
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's what I meant <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do agree that repeated questions are annoying although I can understand that if the original was posted along time ago then its not so bad.

    However having one person start a thread asking pretty much the same question multiple times is pointless and quite annoying. Its made worse if the question is a stupid/cliched one.
    its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's what I suggest, and it does seem to be having a positive effect so far:

    1. If it's the same old topic again and again, whichever user finds the thread first posts a quick reply to say so (nicely!), and includes the link to the most recent repeat topic. Also include a link to the guide for newbies.

    2. Don't waste your time adding anything else to the thread.

    3. Mail me and I will close the thread. End of story.


    If enough of the regulars help out, it will make a big difference.
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