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hey....
I would really love to see my girl touch herself as it turns me on big time, the thing is she will not do it for me. She says she doesn't even masterbate...!!!! I reasure her that it is a perfectly normal thing to do and she will find out more about what she likes, but she still says she wouldn't dare..
I always wank in front of her, I have no problem with that and she likes it.....she is younger than me but we have been together for 7 months and feel pretty comfortable.
Any advice people....thankx
I would really love to see my girl touch herself as it turns me on big time, the thing is she will not do it for me. She says she doesn't even masterbate...!!!! I reasure her that it is a perfectly normal thing to do and she will find out more about what she likes, but she still says she wouldn't dare..
I always wank in front of her, I have no problem with that and she likes it.....she is younger than me but we have been together for 7 months and feel pretty comfortable.
Any advice people....thankx
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all gals r different in their approach. i think we all do it even if we say that we dnt-some r more open tho, about it, like me. i wood probly finger infronta my boyf if he asked me 2, dsnt bother me. however , everyones different.
sorry - ive just realised wat an unuseful reply this is 2 ur query <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">
cheers
Its a pretty personal thing to do in front of somone, and im sure that as you're logether for longer she'll get to trust you more and more and eventually she might feel comfortable doing it infront of you.
Until then- dont pressure her- it'll just mak eher even less likely to want to do it in front of you.
Some girls really don't masterbate, and it is highly possible that shes one of these.
Would she do it infront of you if she didnt even do it in private?
I think not.
dont expect her to budge coz u turn her on,thats bull shit.thats like sayin if u turn her on,and bribe her by sayin u'll do nethin 4 her,ur jus expectin her to return the favour,and thats so selfish.
maybe she doesnt want to do it infront of u coz its not her style.i wudnt do it,no matter how turned on i was.
First, tell her the truth, that it's your biggest fantasy and it really turns you on but don't pressure her. Second, get her comfy & relaxed, she won't do it if she's nervous, basically anything that relaxes her will help (music, massage etc). Third, don't make her self conscious - let her lie down and do not catch her eye. Two other things... you could try telling her a dirty story whilst she does it, to really get her going - or you can even join in yourself, since she likes to watch you already.
Anyway, I hope this helps and if you talk her 'round to it then good job, it's mesmerising to watch! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> Any lasses on here tried it & can offer tips?
Not necesseraly.
Contary to popular opinion, not all girls finger themselves and your g/f may well be one of them.
As i said before, dont pressure her,just let her do if and when she wants.
i dont have ne qualms bout masturbating in front of my b/f coz i know he loves it
also, i can show him what i really want him to do - i dont get how he's just sposed to know what i like automatically
maybe if you made it a joint effort...you could tickle her g-spot (damn i love that) while she touches herself
maybe then she wont feel so embarrassed/shy; turn it into a sex thing instead of just you getting off on watching her do something intensely private
good luck kiddo
B4 I thought it was really yuck... My Bf also wanted me 2 di it infront of him and I sortof rected like ur Gf. He did xactly like that buy said, told me it was his biggest fantasy. One night, my parents werent home, He undressed me, lay me on the bed and just started touching me, not down there, but all over, the breasts ... He took my hand, guided it down there, and it all came naturally, we did it 2gether.. It was the best thing that eva happened to me... I had an orgasm right there and then and it was soo cool..
We now do it together, or he me I him ...
Have fun, take it easy, don't pressure her to mauch and try to take her sort of by surprise, just di it !!!
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i wouldnt do it and to be quite honest i think you should ask your girlfriend if she likes you wankin off in front of her cos u said you THINK she likes it.
ASK HER AND DONT FORCE HER INTO ANYTHING.
its nasty.
She was quite a twat mind you. Anyway if you do get her to do it be careful how you react while your watching or you might get headbutted <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">. Dont laugh.