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Does Size really Matter ??
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Hi everybody,
First of all, as a new member of this site, let me introduce myself. My name is Sanjaya. I come from Indonesia (therefore, I appologize if my english is not so good, since english is not my native language) and am a Chinese descent. I am 180 cm tall and about 90 kgs. I am 19 years old and still virgin.
Well, I have some 'classic' questions and hope you, either girls or boys, can make them clear to me.
When erected, my dick is about 12-12.5 cm (4.75-5 inch) and not too thick. Since I surf on the net and visit some XXX sites, I have seen so many big dicks. I think their dick is about 7-9 inch. I have tried to have chat with somebody and tell them about this. Yeah....most of them tell me that there is nothing wrong with my dick and others tell me that my dick is small, compared with western (caucasian) guy, but it's ok if it's compared with asian guy. They added too that a dick, whether big or small, has nothing to do with sex, as long as it works well (and yes, my dick works well, I masturbate at least once a day). But others told me that having bigger dick can make sex more 'beautiful'.
What I want to ask:
1. What do you (girls and boys) think ?
2. Since I am still a virgin, is it true that the measurement of dick has nothing to do with sex ? (OR does size really matter?)
3. If you answer no. 2 'yes', then why a woman seem horny when they look at a man with a big dick that hang and make his short bulging on the beach ?
4. What is the average dick in western and asian?
5. Are there any ways to enlarge dick? (Without operation or something like that. I have heard about Jelq Technique. Can you tell me how I do it safely??)
6. Perhaps this qestion is stereotype, therefore I'm sorry. Is it true that most western girls do not like asian boy (as her boyfriend) because of his small dick?
Please tell me what you think and be honest.
Every response will be VERY VERY APPRECIATED.
Sanjaya
First of all, as a new member of this site, let me introduce myself. My name is Sanjaya. I come from Indonesia (therefore, I appologize if my english is not so good, since english is not my native language) and am a Chinese descent. I am 180 cm tall and about 90 kgs. I am 19 years old and still virgin.
Well, I have some 'classic' questions and hope you, either girls or boys, can make them clear to me.
When erected, my dick is about 12-12.5 cm (4.75-5 inch) and not too thick. Since I surf on the net and visit some XXX sites, I have seen so many big dicks. I think their dick is about 7-9 inch. I have tried to have chat with somebody and tell them about this. Yeah....most of them tell me that there is nothing wrong with my dick and others tell me that my dick is small, compared with western (caucasian) guy, but it's ok if it's compared with asian guy. They added too that a dick, whether big or small, has nothing to do with sex, as long as it works well (and yes, my dick works well, I masturbate at least once a day). But others told me that having bigger dick can make sex more 'beautiful'.
What I want to ask:
1. What do you (girls and boys) think ?
2. Since I am still a virgin, is it true that the measurement of dick has nothing to do with sex ? (OR does size really matter?)
3. If you answer no. 2 'yes', then why a woman seem horny when they look at a man with a big dick that hang and make his short bulging on the beach ?
4. What is the average dick in western and asian?
5. Are there any ways to enlarge dick? (Without operation or something like that. I have heard about Jelq Technique. Can you tell me how I do it safely??)
6. Perhaps this qestion is stereotype, therefore I'm sorry. Is it true that most western girls do not like asian boy (as her boyfriend) because of his small dick?
Please tell me what you think and be honest.
Every response will be VERY VERY APPRECIATED.
Sanjaya
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Scotty
1. I think that if any woman laughed at you, refused to sleep with you etc., then she's not worth it, find someone else.
2. In general, length doesn't matter to many women. Some women prefer a wider penis, but not all - in any case, too wide and it's just painful. In the end though all that really matters is that it functions <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">. how much you and your partner enjoy sex has more to do with how you apply yourself. Use your imagination, and use more than your penis. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
3. I've never noticed this effect, maybe a girl should answer here... but I know quite a few girls who find the sight of penises bulging out of swimwear a bit grotesque. On the other hand, I guess it might have this effect on some people because it's a bit more noticeable, so more people notice it and think about sex.
4. About 6 inches, with about an inch and a half variation either side of that being in the normal range. There's not much variation between black, western and asian penises that I'm aware of.
5. Never heard of any ways, sorry.
6. Load of rubbish if you ask me. Most girls choose boyfriends on the basis of their personality in the end.
Just stop worrying and start falling in love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Being from Indonesia u may not have heard a saying we have over here.
"Size doesn't matter, it's what you do with it that counts".
Only the first few cm's of a woman's vagina are sensitive anyway!whats the point in having a 9 inch knob if she wont feel it properly anyway??? See where Im going with this...?
If you know how to turn her on, and u know some creative positions, then it doesnt matter how big ur penis is.
As for the XXX sites, most of those are faked anyway! Western average is 6 inches give or take, no reason why it shouldnt be the same over there!
Hope I've helped reassure you a bit matey
cya around
My favourite variation of the "it's not the size, it's what you do with it" phrase is - It's not the size of the Wizards wand, it's the way he waves it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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Thanks alot for your responses. Now I feel better.
For Scotty 2 Hotty,
Thanks for your nice welcome. I like you when you do some nice movement such as W O R M in WWF.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
For JB,
Thanks for your 'step by step' advices and thanks that you have spared much time to write me with such a detail post.
For Whowhere,
Thanks for your encouragement.
For j9j9,
Thanks for your recommended FAQ's. You must be spared a lot of time to look around this site to find those FAQ's.
For RachaelHolmes,
Thanks for your encouragement.
You are great, folks. Nice to meet you.
Sanjaya
PS: Other responses are still welcome.
Nice to meet you too....See ya.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">