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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Okay i have a question. Is it normal not to get off while a guy eats you out? Ive never got off like this. It feels really good, but my man thinks hes doing somthing wrong. Whats up?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One thing, over here we say cum, and not got off!
    As for it being normal? I only do it to my gf to warm her up for sex, I cant stand doing it for very long cos it makes my tongue ache, so ur bf must have one made of steel! Dont worry about, u will if u relax

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One thing, over here we say cum, and not got off!

    Sorry I didnt know that. I will remember that for next time.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    goddamn americans!!! :-D (joke)
    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hollio, if you want to say "got off" then you say it. Surely we understood what was meant? So what's the problem?

    I've seen horrendous, pointless & damaging arguements in newsgroups over terminology, what does it matter as long as we understand?

    If we don't understand we can just ask, but that was obviously not the case here!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    j9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For the sake of provoking argument, I'm gonna say that I think she should say "cum" whilst visiting an overwhlemingly English board. C'mon j9, disagree with me!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
    Viti kuin muuri.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    For the sake of provoking argument, I'm gonna say that I think she should say "cum" whilst visiting an overwhlemingly English board. C'mon j9, disagree with me!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;


    You're just trying to wind me up aren't you. lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It worked in anything goes http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum22/HTML/000225.html

    but it ain't gonna work here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I understood what Hollio said & that's all I care about. Language is dynamic.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I just love you turtle lol

    j9

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah n cum is kinda shorta n more time efficient to right.

    plus got off over here kinda means kissing so u could get confused
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Daze:
    plus got off over here kinda means kissing so u could get confused

    I wouldn't have thought that tho.

    get off here means same as it does there (be aroused or cum by .....[insert text!!]

    'get off with' means kissing

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There isn't really much help going on for hollio here!!

    Why do you term it 'eats you out'? I wouldn't have associated that with an act of love, it reminds me of an 11 year old you has just learnt about oral sex trying to look big to his mates.

    Point being.. do you trust your boyfriend? Do you tell 'im what feels good and feel comfortable doing so.. or do you jump in the sac and hope for a good time? If you don't feel comfortable you aren't going to relax and in turn you aren't going to enjoy it like you could be. But if you do trust him and it feels good, then don't worry about it, you will cum in time. I don't cum from sex, but it doesn't mean its being done wrong, I very much still enjoy it...

    Talk to your boyfriend, tell him how good it is when he does something you like, I know you think you're making him insecure by not giving him what he was striving towards, but if he cares about you, he only wants to make you happy and it will make him happy for you to be.

    Good luck (wink) and enjoy
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