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well im a sensible gal and ive finally found 'the one' but the problem is im pretty worried about contraceptive and the whole thing that surrounds it! im on the pill (second month) so fairly new to it but just how safe is that? altho i wud hav no problems makin my bf wear protection i just feel it wud spoil the flow of things durin the first time! wot do ya think??
please help
luv hippy xxxx
please help
luv hippy xxxx
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use a condom.
(well 3 or 4 of an evening, like)
The pill can be made less effective by stomach upsets and certain medications. It is usually very effective if you take it exactly according to the instructions on the packet, but accidents occasionally happen.
It is a good idea to use condoms as well because they can help to protect you from sexually transmitted infections: http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/condoms.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/sexual_health/
Having unprotected penetrative sex can spread sexually transmitted diseases and cause pregnancy EVEN IF THE MAN PULLS OUT BEFORE HE EJACULATES (cums/gets off).