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Age Matters.... :c(
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First just wanted to say HELLO!!!!!!!!! to all of ya! Havent been round here miuch these last months.....
To start of I gotta tell those that don't know that I'm les, otherwise all of this is not going to make any sence. This is kinda a long story, so bear with me.
I met the most perfect woman in July. We met online, got on like a house on fire, decided to meet and became friends. In these holls I went overseas for 2 months (thats where am now). Before I left things between us got kinda steamy and we kind of wanna get together as a couple once I am back. Quite simple really.
My problem is that I am worried about our age difference.
I am 18, she is 28. This seems like an terribly big gap to me .... I really like her, and everything is perfect, ok, but the age issue is just bothering me.
What do u guys think? Is age really not an issue? Any experiences?
I am just worried that we are on different levels, eventhough right now that is not noticable. But that might just be love that blinds? Hm.
To start of I gotta tell those that don't know that I'm les, otherwise all of this is not going to make any sence. This is kinda a long story, so bear with me.
I met the most perfect woman in July. We met online, got on like a house on fire, decided to meet and became friends. In these holls I went overseas for 2 months (thats where am now). Before I left things between us got kinda steamy and we kind of wanna get together as a couple once I am back. Quite simple really.
My problem is that I am worried about our age difference.
I am 18, she is 28. This seems like an terribly big gap to me .... I really like her, and everything is perfect, ok, but the age issue is just bothering me.What do u guys think? Is age really not an issue? Any experiences?
I am just worried that we are on different levels, eventhough right now that is not noticable. But that might just be love that blinds? Hm.
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She has a child, a little girl, 6 years old. Her daughter does not live with her, she stays with her father about 800 km away. SO this is a summary:
Me: 18
Me (possible) gf: 28
Her daughter: 6
Hm.
Thanx for all imput.
A.
at the end of the day it isnt about the age more the way of life, maybe if you were in school and she was working id say careful cause your in different worlds but if your things are similar then theres no reason why anything cant or wont work!
everythings what you make it good luck!
I noticed that noone commented on my question of what difference a child makes in this equasion... I am very unsure of how to handle that. Her daughter is 12 years younger than me, fine. Right now the daughter is living with her father, but at some stage in the near furure her daughter will come live with her, she will be in our lives and part of our lives.
Difficult.
Yes it can be, but there again it isnt always difficult...that depends on the child and how they accept you.