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My mum(rant)
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i swear to god shes the stupidest unmaternal dickheaded person ever.
she wonders why i left home at 17 seriously she annoys me so fucking much.
She only ever rings me when shes drunk to moan even though i live 120miles away and now shes telling me shed rather go out with someone who lives round the corner than see me for my 18th birthday so now she can get done if she thinks im wasting christmas day or new year going to see her, id rather be in blackpool with people who care.
i just dont get why shes so stupid i mean i never knew it was possible for any parent not to have maternal instincts she never has she was more mothering to the beer.
this was just my little blah blah blah you know.
Do you get on with your mum?
she wonders why i left home at 17 seriously she annoys me so fucking much.
She only ever rings me when shes drunk to moan even though i live 120miles away and now shes telling me shed rather go out with someone who lives round the corner than see me for my 18th birthday so now she can get done if she thinks im wasting christmas day or new year going to see her, id rather be in blackpool with people who care.
i just dont get why shes so stupid i mean i never knew it was possible for any parent not to have maternal instincts she never has she was more mothering to the beer.
this was just my little blah blah blah you know.
Do you get on with your mum?
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Can you not talk to your mum face to face or better still, write her a letter to say how your feeling and how hurt she makes you feel sometimes? Don't hold a grudge. talk to her and sort things out, you never know what's round the corner.
My mum I get on with brilliantly.
sorry about yours
Malt Munk xxx
Exactly the same, but more that our relationship fell apart when I went to Uni and I know I can't depend on her or my father.
the parents may well not be quite what the child expected.
if your parent is a drunk ...a materialist ...a socialite ...a fake ...theres not a lot you can do about it apart from ...you not turning out the same as them.
we can choose our friends but not our family ...
It is trie, and it is a problem too
I don't know your mum at all, but maybe she is just mad at you, cause you left home so early, she may think you don't like her...
In other case, she may be like my dad... (btw, how's your relationship with yours?) If she is like him... I would tell you to just ignore (I know it's hard) and just.. live your life...
Good luck, anyway...
I used to get on brilliantly with my dad but my older sister managed to turn him completely against me, ive been trying to contact him since before i left home with no success he didnt know i left until june and i went in february.
i tried as hard as i could but at 17 it isnt my duty to be the mature responsible one.
i dont get on with my mum at all, but me and my dad get on quite well but i cant talk to either of them about anything. i see all my friends talking to their mums about what boys they like etc and i cant imagine being like that with either of my parents. they gave my a good upbringing n that, i just dont get on with my mum at all. she drives me mad.
i hope everything gets better with your mum, and you get in contact with your dad.
does your bro know about this? talk to your mates too-see how they view it too!
just read your other reply-blimey if she plays the "brought up badly" card alot-well wouldn't you think she wouldn't make life hard for her own knowing how she felt-gah!
Personally now i get on with mom-not during my teens tho-we did argue alot-still do at times. But it was nothing compared to the situations you've had.
yea go round her house and beat her up! ive decided now im staying here for everything christmas new year my birthday the lot my brother feels the same he doesnt talk to my mum at all, since she got drunk and told him he was a bad father!i think one of the biggest problems here is i havnt really got any good mates yet so its abit hard.
My mum didnt have a bad upbringing at all she just likes to act that way because its all about her!
Thats like my mum and I. When her and my mum split, I hated her and some people are probably thinking 'you can never hate your mum' But seriously, I hated her so much. Then when I grew up and moved back things have been great. She has her little rants every now and again about housework not being done and stuff but she wouldnt be the same if she didnt.