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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I could do with a little help,

A friend of mine is a virgin and recently got fingered a few times and he went deeper than she ever had, she bleed a little bit and had pains (which are described as period pains) which lasted a couple of hours,

is this something to be worried about? is it normal to feel a little bit of cramps after it?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You pry too much into your 'friends'' lives.

    Could just be the hymen breaking if she hadn't already broken it through horse riding etc. Some girls do experience pain on their first times, especially if he was rough with her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG I cant believe youre THAT close with your friends.
    bloody hell, some things should remain personal, and I think you need to realise that its not your place to solve every single little problem one of your friends has.
    Let her work this one out herself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    OMG I cant believe youre THAT close with your friends.
    bloody hell, some things should remain personal, and I think you need to realise that its not your place to solve every single little problem one of your friends has.
    Let her work this one out herself.

    Ok then How about I rephrase it from friend to Girlfriend, i just didn't want to use the word as we only had this weekend together?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah that would make it sound a LOT less dodgy tbh.
    You should have said that in the first place.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    yeah that would make it sound a LOT less dodgy tbh.
    You should have said that in the first place.

    yeah well.. i just don't wanna jinx it,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just can't understand why you do it. ;/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    OMG I cant believe youre THAT close with your friends.
    bloody hell, some things should remain personal, and I think you need to realise that its not your place to solve every single little problem one of your friends has.
    Let her work this one out herself.

    I have a lot of close girl mates, iv even seen a few of them naked thats how close we are and weve never done anything sexual together. Guys can be friends with girls you know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Doofay
    You pry too much into your 'friends'' lives.

    Could just be the hymen breaking if she hadn't already broken it through horse riding etc. Some girls do experience pain on their first times, especially if he was rough with her.
    :yes: thats probably it, i bleed for a bit the first and second time i had sex.... maybe dont use so many fingers next time :)
    she'll be fine... x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is sho OK now? If the pains have gone and there's no more bleeding, it was probably down top being more rough than she is used to. If the come back/continue, however, she should visit her GP to be sure.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he's too rough.

    you're supposed to be making love, not stuffing a chicken.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kaffrin
    you're supposed to be making love, not stuffing a chicken.

    sorry but :lol:, had to laugh at that one!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RudeBwoy
    I have a lot of close girl mates, iv even seen a few of them naked thats how close we are and weve never done anything sexual together. Guys can be friends with girls you know.
    I never said they couldnt be friends.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actrually I only fingered her, we didn't make love or have sexual intercourse,

    I only used one finger and the pain normally goes a couple of hours after the masterbation, I was very gentle but I think it is because she isn't use to it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well then maybe she werent turned on enuf that can hurt if your dry
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    well then maybe she werent turned on enuf that can hurt if your dry

    Ooo.. no she was Very wet and turned on, I do think it's the Hymen
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well then im out of ideas.... :confused:

    i guess you'll just have to wait till next time to find out x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    well then im out of ideas.... :confused:

    i guess you'll just have to wait till next time to find out x

    I think it's the Hymen, she bleed a little but it's All gone now so, it's all good :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just thought... do you have long nails?
    you may have cut her without her or you noticing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    I just thought... do you have long nails?
    you may have cut her without her or you noticing

    I cut mine all the time, cant stand them.. but she has longer nails
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    I cut mine all the time, cant stand them.. but she has longer nails
    Yeah but thats not what i asked lol....

    i was referring to your ahnds coz you fingered... not her fingering you lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    Yeah but thats not what i asked lol....

    i was referring to your ahnds coz you fingered... not her fingering you lol

    no.. i cut my nails but she fingered herself and has long nails
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    no.. i cut my nails but she fingered herself and has long nails
    Oh ok there it is... ok well then that might be it....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    Oh ok there it is... ok well then that might be it....

    Ok thank you,

    Well she seems fine now,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kaffrin
    you're supposed to be making love, not stuffing a chicken.

    Haha. That made me laugh so much.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeh probably the long nails, wouldnt worry about it..after all a girls bits are very sensitive to even the slightest scratches.

    k

    x
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