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What do you want?

Simple question for both the men and the women:
What do you want out of a relationship?

EDITED: To answer my own question, I would say I want commitment, compatibility and affection. Not much else I want.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    commitment
    trust
    affection
    an understanding from both sides
    and most importantly... a GSOH and i have to click with them....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trust
    Sex
    Humour
    Compatibility
    Intelligent conversation
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What i've already got suits me perfectly & is all I could want & more:heart::love:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What I want is what I've got.

    I've got a diddy who absolutely adores me, looks gorgeous, wants me regardless how shit I look after a nightout, doesn't mind waiting up for me at his after I'm pissed and want a cuddle after a night with the girls. I've got someone who'll argue with me about whether Declan Donnelly does the voice of Enjy Benji or not, and watch Sex And The City with me and giggle at the right parts, even though I KNOW he hates it.

    I've got late night phone calls about absolutely nothing and random kisses and cuddles and everything wonderful.

    It's like that quote from Sex And The City, I've got someone who wants me for me, and that's fabulous. :D
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Commitment, affection and pie.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What I have is what I want. And what I want is what I have.

    Perfect, really. Or as perfect as any relationship can be.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Kermit
    What I have is what I want. And what I want is what I have.

    Perfect, really. Or as perfect as any relationship can be.

    I expected some vomit inducing dribble like that. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by JsT
    I expected some vomit inducing dribble like that. :p

    Yeah.

    And I have pie.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What I'd want in a relationship would be:

    1. A girl
    2. A girl that likes me back
    3. A girl that likes me back and is intelligent
    4. A girl that likes me back and is intelligent and cute
    5. A *particular* one.

    Hope that helps :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Trust
    *Honesty
    *Good sex (a guy who wants to please me, not just get his dick wet)
    *A best friend
    *somebody who can be daft and serious, at the right times
    *Someone to hug
    *intelligence
    *slight quirks that make him unique
    :D (feel quite lucky now, cos my guys all that+more)
    SBG
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by JsT
    Commitment, affection and pie.

    i swear you n fiend to get together.. you and your pieness
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I want to have someone that gets me, like understands me and likes me for me even if he knows my faults. I want to have trust and chemistry with someone. that spark where you can feel it in your stomach whenever u see them. I just want to be able to have fun and also be able to talk about serious things if I need to. One thing Ive always wondered though is what most guys want out of a relationship?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. someone I can trust totally and completely with everything - have just found someone like that, before hadn't found anyone who could cope with somethings!
    2. Someone who likes kisses, cuddles, general affection
    3. Someone who likes mango sorbet
    4. and maltesers
    5. GSOH!!
    6. understands the quirky little things i do, which leave everyone else baffled

    Ooo...cuddling in bed, someone who'll cuddle me regardless!

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as weird as this sounds... i like men who are a little bit rough with me...

    i need someone who will tease me and wrestle around with me...
    but i also would like him to know when to be gentle and affectionate....
    and i would like someone who i can have deep conversation with...
    someone who shares the same sense of humor that i do....
    someone good looking...


    hmm.... i think rooney might do it for me though.. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i want what i have + a few things like trust
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077


    hmm.... i think rooney might do it for me though.. ;)

    :crazyeyes sorry that really did make me cackle. How the hell does wayne rooney fit that? :D

    Ideally i'd like someone who realises and respects that being an only child i'm used to my own space and don't need a 24/7 fella. I need someone who appreciates my "quirks" and doesn't try to change them. I need a bloke who will stand up to me if he thinks i'm out of order (not many do you see). I need someone who can appreciate the fact that i can look after myself physically and verbally and that i'm their equal not the weaker sex.

    As friends have told me i'm too picky, too independant and too much of a wise cracking bitch :D Bless them, i'm so touched when they tell me this;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by malteser monkay


    Ooo...cuddling in bed, someone who'll cuddle me regardless!

    :D
    oh yes definately after sex... veyr important, good point malt monk. i forgot that...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just thought of something else I want: somebody who'll love me at my best and at my worst. Which when you consider me at my worst, is asking a lot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    trust
    honesty
    understanding
    affection
    sparks
    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trust.
    Great Sex.
    Humour.
    Reliablity.
    Fun.
    Affection.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *gone*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    i swear you n fiend to get together.. you and your pieness

    Only if there were sufficient for a pie each.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Fidelity, trust, and honesty

    *Lots of Sex, cuddles, and kisses

    and most importantly....

    *Unconditional love - through the good times and the bad
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by w3lsh_princ3ss
    *Unconditional love - through the good times and the bad

    That sums up exactly what I want from a relationship.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What i have is pretty great and i guess it is what i would look for in all relationships, someone fun, loving, kind, generous, someone who makes me laugh, someone i can be comfortable with and someone, who at times, is just as silly as me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    After a drunk night I finally realize what I want. I just want a relationship. I want someone to laugh with and watch crappy movies with. Somebody that cares about you. Every house I go to to chill at, I see couples. Guys mainly that I've fucked with their girlfriends. They all seem happy. And I get jelous and wish I had that too. But then the moment that anything more than a quick lay is even considered I get all weird and make sure that it doesn't happen. But sometimes I want it too... but alas, I cannot.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Hellfire
    i swear you n fiend to get together.. you and your pieness

    That makes no sense.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by JsT
    That makes no sense.

    I read pieness as penis.

    And it still made no sense.

    Oh well, Hellfire is from Braindead. It's to be expected that what comes from his mouth is a constant stream of verbal diarrhoea...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    What I have is what I want. And what I want is what I have.

    Perfect, really. Or as perfect as any relationship can be.

    To elaborate further I want someone who can be deep and meaningful, can comfort me when I'm sad, but can be an even bigegr child than I am when it's suitable.

    I want someone who has the same taste in home furnishings, and has the same ideal of cleanliness.

    I want someone who cuddles, and loves cuddling (much as sex is wonderful, the cuddling afterwards is where the true emotion is).
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Kermit
    I read pieness as penis.

    And it still made no sense.

    Oh well, Hellfire is from Braindead. It's to be expected that what comes from his mouth is a constant stream of verbal diarrhoea...

    :lol::lol::lol::lol:
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