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how can i tell if she likes me?
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ok heres the deal, ill just tell u everything weve done and i wanna tell u if she likes me. She gave me a bouncy ball called bob and told me to play with it in class. She walked past a few of her friends when she came into the cantine and sat down and talked to me first. She moved her seat closer to mine when i got up and didnt move it away when i moved mine closer to hers. She kindve rubbed my hand when she gave me the ball. i was talking about how i wouldnt remember what type of nail varnish she uses and i said ive had so much to remember already , and she asked me what i knew about her, she made me list everything. She waved at me drastically when she saw me and when i motioned her over she sat down beside me, instead of asking me what i wanted or sitting elsewhere, and went bright red whenever i asked her for her number, though she hasnt replied to my message i sent her. Also she pointed out that a guy she asked out last year thought she was below her age range, and i asked her what age she was and she said, she seemed to freeze to see what my reaction was Obviously i;m viewing these things the way i want to see them, but im really bad at figuring this stuff out. Also she told me that this guy that fancies her was talking to he on msn adn she said " i really like you" and he said "I don't know how i feel about you, but dont take that as a rejection" and she said " i wasnt asking you out", which she emphasised and made quite clear they werent close friends anymore after that.
primary worry, she likes all the weird net stuff i like and im a tad frightened she may know of thesite.org but im just hoping u can help me then ill pray like a bugger.
cheers in advance
primary worry, she likes all the weird net stuff i like and im a tad frightened she may know of thesite.org but im just hoping u can help me then ill pray like a bugger.
cheers in advance
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It's sometimes very hard to find out just when flirting becomes attraction, as it's such a fine line.
But flirt back some more, up the pace a bit, and see what happens.
Gradually crank up the level of flirting, or ask her out somewhere that could be platonic if it needed to be construed that way.
Ask Zella;)
Yea dave gimme a call after six and i'll help you out, at college at the mo so I wont be much help as i'm ment to be doing my assignments.
LMAO - thats sooo funny - but not necessarily a bad thing though - she could be your idea woman....
From everything you said I would kind of say that she does like you - but then the not replying to text message thing is a bit strange - but yest as Kermit says just ask her out and then you will know - oh and get her msn addy as well
And there is nothing wrong with being an internet geek
She's asking you loads of questions, right? Great sign! While at college, I really fancied this girl and we had a similar friendship to yours. Women ask questions in order to show they are really interested, and women love to get positive attention. Hey, we all do. Sadly though, us men are absolutely terrible at working out if someone fancies us.
I think the feelings on both sides are mutual, but that she is confused about what she wants. Maybe she's not ready for a relationship or anything. Tread carefully, but I'd say you should talk to her about this. It doesn't matter if she knows about this website. What you do on the net isn't really her business.
I don't know if this is a pattern but lately all the nicest women I've spoken to are all married and all married to what you'd think were the most mismatched husbands possible!!!