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help me please!
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i broke up with my boyfriend in feb, due to my lost of plotage....and obbsessive behaviour towards someone else (please no comments on that i am guilty enough about it as it is).
i want him back bad. really bad.
the time before last i saw him, he told me that he still liked me but that he was in a relationship that would kill the other girl if he broke it off with her. their relationship is now very much on the rocks. and i'm still in love with him just as much as i was when we first kissed.
i don't know how or what to do now. he seems to think it's pretty much over between him and this other girl. she's a depressing sod who is TOTALY incapable of smiling and i've never seen her happy. infact, he seems to have been avoiding her.
how do i sort this one out, it's driving me absolutly crazy to the point, i've been crying for a good portion of the night thinking about it and listening to songs we listened to together....
help!
i want him back bad. really bad.
the time before last i saw him, he told me that he still liked me but that he was in a relationship that would kill the other girl if he broke it off with her. their relationship is now very much on the rocks. and i'm still in love with him just as much as i was when we first kissed.
i don't know how or what to do now. he seems to think it's pretty much over between him and this other girl. she's a depressing sod who is TOTALY incapable of smiling and i've never seen her happy. infact, he seems to have been avoiding her.
how do i sort this one out, it's driving me absolutly crazy to the point, i've been crying for a good portion of the night thinking about it and listening to songs we listened to together....
help!
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sounds harsh but maybe, just maybe it's true? if he wants to stick with this girl then you can't change his mind... men are incapable of thinking. now he may try and sleep with you keeping his other girl on the side, if he suggests it, smack him upside the head and carry on without him.
i get your point.
i think i need to clarify the situation with him, before i deside to move on or to take action.
thanks!
ok, thank you so much.
i might stop singing jolene after this!
they are in an open relationship. but it's so open they haven't talked to each other for over 6 weeks...........:eek2: don't get it....
'yeah you can sleep around but you'll always sleep with me after right?'
definately a little uncertainty in that.
like i said, i don't exactly understand open relationships, seems like it's a just a back-up shag in case you get let down one evening.
something for frail egos.
i shall have to see what happens because i will not accept anything less than all when it conserns open relationships. call me gready but if he wants me, then fine, but he's mine, and not for sharing.
and even animals can do that. ie swans.....well in a way.....
Unless it's a problem with you getting out to see him...then I haven't got a clue.
gonna meet up on tuesday!
i just need to work out what i'm gonna say now
btw im pissedso dont listenbt hop it helps
me x
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel, but don't be too "I neeeeeeeeeeeeeed you, come back to me"....desperate. If it's to be, it'll happen, if he's not interested, then think yourself better off without him.
It worked (sort of) with me....I think.