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Ive been with my boyf 3 years and we have ran into alot of trouble in the past 6months. We have broken up and got back together so many times, even when i havent wanted to but simply because i feel i have to.
We dont get on as we used to, we always argue and i am unhappy. He keeps sayin he will change but he doesnt.
Anyway last week i met this guy when i was out, we talked all night and he just seemed so sweet. He has e-mailed me and i am not sure whether to reply. I dont want to cheat on my boyf no matter how unhappy i am with him, but what if im letting go a chance of happiness.
What would you do?
We dont get on as we used to, we always argue and i am unhappy. He keeps sayin he will change but he doesnt.
Anyway last week i met this guy when i was out, we talked all night and he just seemed so sweet. He has e-mailed me and i am not sure whether to reply. I dont want to cheat on my boyf no matter how unhappy i am with him, but what if im letting go a chance of happiness.
What would you do?
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3 years is a long time, it's not surprising you feel like you have to stay with him - it's almost a habit. It's what you're used to.
However, look at it this way. You're not happy, and you deserve to be happy. If you think you'd be happier without him then you know what you've gotta do.
SBG